So I'm a aPUA, and I did (some version) of the game on the girl. Towards the end of the 10 minutes I was getting wierd kino's (in AFC days I would take this as IOI's) While we were in A3 stage she was talking and giving me half almost kino's. We were walking and she would reach in for a touch, but not touch me. It happened maybe about 5 or 6 times, and on the sixth time she just kinda of poked me. (But a comfortable poke if you know what i mean. like a fingertip kino)
So let me explain
Opener or A1: First of all I'm in class and it had ended prematurely. I have to wait 1 hour for my next class so I take advantage of this time and I do this bar trick I learned to attract attention to myself. It's a complicated puzzle that I would love to share with you guys but It is hard to explain without visual aids. Anyways this is my opener. The girl I'm really interested in isn't even at my table yet. I do this because I know it will bring it to me. By this I think I've not only increased my value, but it opened a conversation such as *where did you learn this, omg how do i do this* And I get to tease/neg her
A2: So I've already DHV myself just a little bit, but I'm actually really bad at this section it's something I need to work on, but after everybody fails at solving the puzzle, I say wait, I have another. I show them another puzzle and I get to neg her for a little bit longer, and ask questions about her. I never really get into story telling or any other DHV's other than my puzzle, so in essence I've basically skipped this part.
A3: So anyways I ask her questions, she says things blah blah blah. I've given the answer to my second puzzle and then everybody disbands and starts to leave. So in A2 I was talking about how lame it was to end classes prematurely because I have to wait for my next class and have nothing to do. So when everybody starts leaving I say "Dammit, what the hell am I supposed to do for the next hour? (I know AFC, but whatever I'm young)" and the girl I've been negging says "You should come with me to the library." So she's a little ahead of me and so I instinctively start walking towards her and say "I don't even know why I'm following you" and she says "Because you know you have nothing better to do" (shit test I don't even respond to, i couldn't think of anything). I realize now the best thing should have been to say "Okay, hey slow down! Instead of picking up my pace to catch up to her walking and ignored that shit test all together.
We are talking, and skipping to the half kino part. She is talking about her bowling class she is taking and how ridiculous it is when she says her instructor tell's her students that they need to 'condition' for it (because of leg cramps), and that she is a volleyball player, and how they should play that sport and see how badly they need to condition. While she is telling me the funny part about her instructor, she does her half kino things. What do you make of this? Is this an IOI? or did I fail too horribly at A2?

When we parted ways, I still didn't get her name, or her number but I left on my terms. I said well it's getting close to class time and its right over there. And she said, Oh okay, have a good thanks giving blah blah.

What are your thoughts guys. I've got pretty thick skin and can handle all types of criticism well. Not only that but I try to objectively look at it from your point of view (which is why I'm so good at A3, this is how played the game in AFC days)

Thanks

I'd say she was probably unsure about how you'd react to her touching you. Some people are just like that.

Right, this was all done in about 20-30 minutes. So obviously.

But, I guess what you are really saying is, it was a result of a poor DHV phase right? Or am I just see'ing what I am only wanting see because of "looking-glass self"
Or did I do too much negging (I don't think this is the case we got a couple laughs out of it), but it's possible all my neg's made me intimidating.
Or my body language/tone wasn't energetic/friendly enough??

I think if I was more... of what?? She would have felt comfortable doing kino on me.

I forgot to mention this is an HB9. So you can imagine how confident she is as a person.

You probably didn't demonstrate that you are a touchable and touchy person. You need to show to people that contact is alright. You can do this by patting them on the shoulder, shaking hands, hugging, anything that can be taken as friendly kino. Once you've established that kino is alright, then you procede to turn the "friendly" part into a more sexual feel.

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Basically, like Rye is saying, do more kino with her. Let her know that touching you is ok. That you're cool with it and even like it.

Nice, sweet.

Wow I feel stupid now

NO NO NO. Don't EVER feel stupid on here man. Trust me, we would ALL feel stupid for some of this idiotic stuff that we've done in this process, lol. But there's no need to here. This is a safe haven.

That's an awesome thing to say, exactly what some of us need to hear, I think.

Okay, I'm recognising a certain amount of minijag's story in my own encounters. There's this one girl I'm working on at the moment who seems to be naturally non-touchy. So we hug or touch arms when we meet and depart, but she tends to keep her body language closed, which makes me feel like I need to develop more comfort before throwing in Kino. Or is it just the same thing as minijag, I haven't given her enough cues that contact and openness is okay? Should I just start throwing thumb-wrestles, and handshakes and the like into our conversations?