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The one you were born with. Once you outgrow the need for scripted and rehearsed material and your personality alone is enough to draw women towards you, its no longer your call sign that is attracting women, not your alter ego, its you.
I get what you're saying PrettyBoy, but I've never been one to use canned material, I just couldn't get myself to do it, so I've always been running natural game, yet I prefer to use my alias (even with friends) rather than my real name.
We all know the famous line by Shakespear, "A rose by any other name, would smell as sweet," yet I think this is more due to the concept of what a rose is, rather than what we call it. I've probably confused a lot of people with that, so allow me to explain. My name is spelled in an odd manner, yet phonetically it is quite plain; so either way, I am thought of as plain and boring from the sound of my name, or if people know the spelling, I have been teased about it for as long as I can remember. The concept of my name, is overcoming the concept of who I am, thus I operate under my alias and people immediately go, "Rye, that's an interesting name!" and realise I'm a little different, or at least give me the chance to prove as much, before stereotyping me in with people named by my given name.
Words have power. We link meanings to words and although more often than not, the meanings we give to a few syllables is incorrect, our brain does it anyways. So when I say that the best PUA name, is the one that suits you best, I mean that the best thing to call yourself, is what you want people to associate with you and your personality right off the bat, because as soon as they hear your name, they are gonna instantly link emotions and concepts to that word, based upon past experiences they've had.
Now, the tricky thing, is that most PUAs don't actually operate under their PUA alias in-field, as introducing yourself Prettyboy41 for example, would be a little bizzare. I agree that Vaghammer may sound very masculine and have some punch to it, but try offering your hand to a lady in a maritini bar and telling her that's your name.
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