im a afc and new here. i need help and want to learn and change. im looking for a ltr not to just play. i need need help and need to learn everything about the game. i always tought i was good with the game. im shy but once i meet someone i never had problems with girls until now. i was with my sarge for 2 years. we even got engaged. i messed up with trying to play the game and keep her chasing me. we seperated 3 months ago but kept talking. i knew i would get her back so i tried to play with other girls for a minute. i waited to long and she found someone else. i need to learn how to dhv and learn stylemog. i need to get her back. i need to learn how to change myself, the game to get her talking to me again and how i can get her to come back and loose this new guy she has seen for a month. i hoping i can get some lesson and knowledge on what i need to do. thanks for the help and advise.
update- some of my boys have been pua members for a while and it has changed their lifes. they are trying to help and teach me where i need to relearn myself and striaghten up my life. they had me do the off the wall text to her and it worked great. for the first time in 2 weeks we talked for a minute. i cut it short trying to play cool. later that afternoon she hit me back up. i was cool with my response and she answered back. then me being an afc went to for and got her to back off again. thanks for the books i will read them i have alot to learn and change.

Well i would tell you to move on as probably the best advice anyone could give but if you really feel the need to get her back i would start with some of the recommended books.

Though im not sure you can game her since she knows you so damn well.

Ok, seriously, stop thinking about getting her back. The harder you try, the faster she will run away. I've been in a similar situation almost a year ago when my LTR dumped me, and I've been trying to get her back for at least 6 months, and it just got me in deeper shit. I'd turned into this complete emotional wreck, all down the social ladder, and my life was a mess.
Honestly, from my experience, first focus on getting your own life together before you even attempt to re-initiate contact with her. If your own life is still a mess, why would anyone want to share it with you?
Get back in touch with some old friends, work on your social skills, practice your game, and just keep working until you can honestly say you've got your life back together. And with your life I really mean YOUR life, don't focus on getting your old life back as that will be damned near impossible, just focus on building up something and see how it turns out. Maybe she will come back to you, maybe you'll meet someone else that'll make you happy.