Ok... Last night i was at the bar with some friends that I met through a buddy who attends the collage here. I met this girl three weeks ago, didnt say much to here or anything just being plight. So last night everyone wanted to leave the bar early I said I was going to stay and just hang out with some other people i new there. She wanted to stayt as well, we talk to my other friends for a bit and then went back dancing. We were grinding and she was giving me IOIs. When the bar closed she asked me what the plan was, i told her that i was going to go home and if she needed a ride i would give her one. On the way she ask if she could come over for a few drinks and i said ok but lets just keep it simple ( meaning me and her) she agreed. So back at my house after a few drinks she saw a cosmo on my dinner table. She lol'd and asked me if it was mine it wasnt but i didnt care and i was like ya it mine i like to keep up on all sorts of thing. She was reading it and there was 100 sex problems artical, skimming through it she noticed a thing about vaginal dryness. She said in a vary upbeat manner Ohhh look a blurb on vag dryness. I Then said in a filrting manner oh kerstin ( the girl) is there somthing you need to tell me? She snaped and went off how it might not be the chicks fault and it can be caused by medications and such. Right then she shut down there was no more rubing of my shoulders ( i told her i hurt them playing football yesterday) or play hitting and she moved off the love seat with me???

So was i wrong in the neg or am i missing something?

P.s. I just got showen to this world by a friend and I am trying to learn as fast as i can so be mean if you have to im more of a afc then a pua

Lol, in the attraction phase that would have been some good shit. But delivery is everything. However, that was a very strong neg. You already had her at your place, there was no reason for it. Next time you get a girl back to your place don't lay on such a harsh neg. Once at your house, depending on what your going for - just have a good time and enjoy each others company.

I think a neg was appropriate, but maybe not as harsh. She was shittesting you with the comment about you having a Cosmo, and then doubled it by telling you about vag dryness.

A good neg might have been to say, "I know a way to make yours wet." Use this if she is ready for seduction.

A better move might be to inquire about it as a general info question: "Do a lot of women have that problem?" Use this if you feel you need to build a bit more comfort and want to transition into seduction.

That would DHV because it backs up your claim to want to know about lots of things. It also shows comapssion to understand women more.

More importantly, it is a great way to talk about hers without sounding like a horndog.