Ok, so I'm at the mall and I see this chick thats a friend of an ex.
Shes cute, annndd so I say (name)?! and she says heyyy... blah blah blah we get talkin.

I get quite a few IOIs; and when I leave I put out my hand and say bye, and she puts her fingers inbetween mine.

I go home and start talkin to her on facebook, and she seems like she wants to hangout. So I tell her to send me her schedual so I can figure somethin out, and she hasnt replyed yet, been about a week.

Now I remember the ex telling me waaaayyy back when, that this girl was very picky and changes her mind alot about boys. So what I want to do is qualify her, make her chase me and put some energy into this.

If the last line that I said was "send me your schedual" anyone have any ideas on how I can qualify her, or if you have a better plan I'd love to hear it.

How to deal with fickle and capricious girl? She is probably the girl that when she enters a social gathering like a party she scans the room and tries to find guys that have value or the most value. Usually to catch these types of girls you would need to enter the comfort zone quickly after attraction and qualifying. By the looks of it you might need to re-initiate attraction with this specific girl.

The finger thing is IOI enough, at that point you should have got her number and set up a time to hang out. this is not good...

She hasnt replied because you are making her do the leg work.

something like this is much better Its more direct and you get the point across much better. She would have been much more receptive, because she obviously was at the mall. If she cant make it she will let you know, and if she is interested she will let you know a time she can. Its not that she is choosey, its that she probably gets bored with guys easily.

Good luck bro.

CK

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ok well thats what I should do for next time. Doesnt really help with what I need to do this time, unless you all think I'm out?:P

Hahaha not happening.

You are not out of it. Just hit her up again, its been a week+. People get busy and she may have forgotten to get back to you.

send a message back like

"Damn girl, i have been soooo busy lately and have been meaning to get back to you. We gotta hang out this week. I am free on Wednesday, meet me up at Starbucks around 7, and wear something cute. "

Make it seem like you were the one who blew her off. If she is interested, she will let you know, if not move on. No big loss.

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