so here is the deal... HB9 met her on the set while working for a TV series. got the #close rode the train home with her even used some anchoring, there was IOI's and Kino's. She txt me the next day to go to dinner with her said i was out with friends (actually out of cash) she txt me again the following day and we talked online... Here is the issue I broke the rule and talked to her for 2 hours via AIM. I told her alot about myself... all things bieng true...

Me: second degree black belt small bussiness owner, recently moved to the city, was living in belgium for a while, artist, writer, reads alot, listens to tons of music.

Her: never been out of NYC doesnt read much and straight up told me she was intimidated by me...

We set up a date later that week she cancelled on me and i hadnt heard from her since... do i move on...? txt an opener...? is there such thing as too much social stock at once...?

sorry for the lenghy post thanks for the help.

She flaked because she didn't feel worthy. In this situation I would actually advise taking the romantic route with flowers, chivalry, and shit like that.

Remember, you're not going to be romantic from a needy and supplicant frame. You're doing it to just give value and make her feel better about herself around you. That's key.

Call her on the phone and talk to her on the phone. Also lower your value and raise hers while your at it. That way she be less likely to flake.

Yeah I would also suggest giving her a call (Not a text). By doing this, it could show her that you are genuinely interested in her and that she is worth your time. Hopefully this will make her feel more comfortable and not so intimidated since you are going out of your way to plan something with her.

Even if she flakes out again or doesnt call you back or whatever, it seems like you have plenty going for you and that there are plenty of women that would love to hang out with you.

Next time you talk to her, try showing her your weaker sides just so she can see you more as a "regular human" (not to say youre not lol). Tell her an embarrassing story that happened to you or something lol.