I am a 21 college student.I need some serious help about my jelousy problems.No its not about my girlfriend or anything.Its like when girls do not pay attention to me or do not respond to me as I want and do it to other guys I get really very jelous.And it lefts me feeling ashamed,depressed,frustrated.Sometimes so much that I do not even go out of my house these days because I fear that I will again feel these feelings.

I have never had any girlfriend but I am always angry at some guys who are good with girls and I always have a thought in my mind out of nowhere that they will still my girlfriend away from me and my girlfriend will leave me without hesitating.

I have also contacted many doctors but they all say only things like "Don't worry!You will have a girlfriend!Just wait for fate and everything else will take care of itself!You are a good guy" and "It's all in your head"

Is there any help for me?Is there any book that you have that deals with these problems?

Joy Partho.

hey, im almost in the same situation! well im 18 and already had a GF... but she picked me

well, i understand, but YOU CAN CHANGE!!! man, i am changing right now. ok let's get this straight. first, you need to get pretty clothes, i mean not like sport clothes or skate clothes. I mean clothes with style and that fits you well. it will boost you're confidence.

after that, its in the head. now that you're confident and good looking (and have good breath ) you must read and watch the most possible about PUA stuff, and social stuff. i mean pua isnt just a game, its talking with people!

ok then (i am at this point) you try on the field. you dont care about rejection, you use it to perform better next time. you must try your pick up lines, try some of canned stuff, practice kino (so it appears natural when you talk) and be talkative and social, and have FUN!!!

ok thats it, im gonna tell you how i do. cuz i almost live what you live. lets be strong!