This girl is a freshman at my college, I'm two years older than her. She's my best friend's, friend's sister. Talked to her online for a little bit and got her phone number. She came over a couple days after that, we hung out at my house for about an hour. We had really good conversations and I used a lot of C&F, which got her laughing a lot. I brought her back to her place and told her and her friend they were coming to a party on thursday, which they seemed really down for.

So for the next two days, wednesday and thursday, we were texting eachother basically all day. On thursday she even sent me a message saying, "Can I just say that you're honestly the nicest and most personality filled person that i've met in a while?"

Later that night she said she couldn't come because her roomate wanted to go to sleep and she doesn't have a car. I told her to just have her roomate drop her off and we'll get a ride home for her. Which she didn't want to do.

Then the next day she initiated the texts and we were talking all day. I called her that night inviting her to a party and again she used the, "my roomate is being lame" line again. Then she said, "believe me id much rather hang out with you than anything." I told her that it wouldn't be a problem of me picking her up. And she said "I feel bad making you do that." I told her it really wouldn't be a problem. No response all night.

Really lost on what to do here.

Move on, or at least, give the impression you are moving on. Don't say you will pick her up or whatnot, make it so she wants to come to you.

After the first "roommate sucks" line you shoulda said, "Too bad, you cant hang out with me then! Catch you later." And cut off communication. She either would have found a way to you, or wouldn't have denied your offer to pick her up the next time.

You're a busy, social guy, she has to jump at the opportunity to hang out with you, right?

With school starting up again everybody and their brothers cousing and is going "dude... the partys over here tonight!", she's getting inundated with offers left and right. Don't sweat getting blown off, she could be going out with her girls. Just don't keep validating her and DLVing yourself by constantly asking her/offering rides, etc. Above poster is right, she should want to come. Post pictures of yourself on facebook with you and other girls you chilled with the night she was supposed to come over.

she seems to think your the nicest guy she's ever met....(her calling u nice guy at this point doesn't sound like she wants to jump your bones ).... From what I'm reading you brought her over to your place and BS'd. you were C&F hahaahahahahaha funny guy. Which ulimately accomplished nothing as far as making any sort of moves on her.

You've asked her to come hang out twice. Twice she's made up 2 lame excuses. if she really wanted to hang out she would make more effort. Also she never makes any sort of counter offers to hang out another with you at another time.Girls like that i never invite them anywhere again EVER

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above poster is right about the nice guy comment, nice guy isnt the sort of compliment you want tbh. Also right about your sounding too eager to meet up, when you offer a woman a chance to meet with you, its a once in a life time offer, your willing to spend some of your time with her, allow her to socialise with your cool friends, the fact that she is allowed to be in your precence should be reward enough for her effort to come out!

Just remeber that the night she isnt coming out, was the night your going to a party with cool friends etc, and all she is showing you is that she has boring roomates and friends who dont like socialising, who should be desperate to hang out with who?

Aslong as you keep reminding yourself that there is one of you and million girls like her out there, you will start to realise that is in fact her who benefits from being around you

slick

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