how would you recover from a failed attempt from someone you know from something that happend..say 2 months ago?

Is this a serious question?

Try to ignore the person you failed for some time and you will notice yourself forgetting it.

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but i dont want to. there isnt a way?

GFTOW! Seriously. Right now, I'm guessing you care too much about the outcome with this one girl. If this is the case, you will probably telegraph neediness without realizing it, and blow it again. Besides that, you shouldn't miss other opportunities just because you're still clinging onto hope.

Stetson is right. Ignore her--at least until you are able to approach her without caring about the outcome. Then game on as if she were a stranger. I can't guarantee that you will succeed with her the second time around (no one can make that claim), but that's why you need to stop caring. Also, I can almost guarantee that if you feel like you need to have her, you will fail.

do you have a deeper explanation?

Did she reject your sexual advances?

Did she dump you?

Did the GHB in her drink not work properly?

If you can be more specific, more help can be provided.

Best suggestion is to go meet other women. If she sees that you are a male of high value in demand she may begin to fight for your attention. If not, you have met several other women and they are now fighting for your attention.

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