So basically I joined jdate b/c I thought there was one girl that was really hot(hb9). I emailed her and she responded. We emailed eachother about 4-5 times each over a period of 2 days and then gchatted a few days later for about 20 minutes. She gave me her number, and I called 2 days later. She didn't answer and i left a voicemail. All I said was "hey, this is Mike, wanted to see how you were doing, give me a call back at..." It's been 2 days and still no response. I may have sounded a bit eager in my voicemail to her, possibly slightly gay. Is there anything else I can do? Could she maybe be playing games too? It did take her 2 days to respond to my first email to her.

i did jdate too. dont focus. go and chat up other girls. there are sooo many on there. chances are she has a lot of hits if she is a 9. you can also text her and say hi. i know for me. i was a lot more responsive to texts then phone calls..good luck

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im just a girl, youre just a boy...can i make it any more obvious.....cliche yes..but o so true

I'll be rejoining Jdate once again. Its definitely a battle field. I've tried numerous types of openers and methods. But, I'm going to give it another shot. I'm using it as a tool to practice my texting/phone game and day 2's. Wish me well...

I'd love to hear other peoples experiences.