Hey like when your at a party or club/bar etc somewhere where its a high energy SPAM party like you now what Im talkin bout. How do you open I just start thinking about it do you just walk up and introduce your self and compliment or do you use indirect opener like an opinion opener will this be to low energy and will they respond will it come off as kinda weird or do you go direct and if so what do you with the obsticales wont they cockblock? I never really been to a party before and soon might be goin to one. I now inderect works in daygame and also direct if alone. So what do you guys open with in a party/club/bar SPAM and does indirect work?

-BigLo

I for one do most entirely Night Game and Online Game. I will be happy to help answer this. First off, I want you to try and grasp the concept that it really doesn't matter what the hell you open with as long as its interesting. Personally, I'm a pretty big fan of indirect and situational openers. Anyways, as long as you follow the right principles for opening and delivery it's really not about the words.

With that idea out of the way let's take a look at what makes a good opener. Bottom line is its interesting and people would want to talk about it. You aren't trying to win a Nobel Peace Prize here you are just trying to get their attention. Fair Enough!

One of the most important aspects of opening any group with Night Game in a club or party is energy! You need to come in at an energy level slightly higher than that of the set already. If you come in too low they blow you off because you ruin their vibe. Come in too high and you blow them out. If you come in just above theirs then they want to feel your Vibe and want you to hang around to share the feeling.

High energy does not mean speaking fast! Slow down your verbal pace and you pauses to keep the.....sets.....attention. You can also pace your words the way you like. You can still be high energy doing this though. You don't want to ramble it off so fast that they don't understand or worse yet thing you are nervous.

Another important aspect is going to be body language and your confidence you have when you deliver. You don't want to lean in or anything that conveys potentially needy behaviour. I ask an indirect opener question as if I don't give a damn what their answer is and I'm about to walk away BUT they say something that captures my attention and I want to stay. You can do this with body rocking if you are familiar with that concept. Also, keep your head up and keep eye contact with the people in the set as you talk. This conveys that you are confident.

I know this is a lot to digest and it's just a few of the main concepts.

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Hey Jsmooth! Great tips as always!

I completely agree, it does not matter what kind of opener you use. I love nightgame. I also personally prefer indirect openers because they make you stand out. A really attractive girl have heard "You are so beautiful" or "Hi my name is Mike" 200 times already so you got to be the exception. If you come in with, Hey, do I look gay?!?! Shes gonna be surprised. You get in under the radar since she does not expect anybody to hit on her after an opening like that.

You also need to calibrate your energy levels. Low= boring, too high=freaky
Just above theirs will help them get into a better mood. You can always bring them up higher during your sarge.

As for bodylanguage here is a checklist:

Smile
Lean back
Walk slowly (larger strides)
Open over the shoulder
Never lean in
Dont get your hands into the classical protection pose (in front of you)
Focus on the less attractive girls or guys
Dont make a lot of small fast movements, this conveys nervosity and lower value

For cockblocks, I focus on getting them over to my side. Tease, joke, be nice. If they fuck with you, have a nice comeback ready. For guys, talk about guy things, put some DHV spikes in and the girls will hear them too. For girls, tell them stories, run routines, you should start gaming your obstacles and move over to your target once you have given her 1 neg.

I suggest you to read the venusian arts and the game. These were the books that helped me the most in the beginning.

Hope it helps!

Ezo

Great advice man. I'm going to definately remember that. I was out sarging today and realize there actually want someone to talk to them. This girl was had the words fuck off on her forehead the way she was looking. And soon as I talked to her she lighted up like Christmas morning. It was epic.