If you look at people that are in relationship, a big part of what made that happen are comonalities, if you like a girl and she also likes you, you can be from Mars, she can be from Venus and you'll still find that one thing that you both enjoy.
Like you said kasabi demonstarting is a lot more powerful than telling her that you like her, for two reasons:
1. People react a lot more on emotions [you do that by future projections] than words.
2. If you tell her ''I like you.'' She thinks OK he is might telling the truth or maybe he's just lying. When you're demonstrating that you LIKE her, she knows you can't fake it (supposingly
ultimately you tell her what you REALLY like about her and that is the whole truth anyway)
A little playfulness goes along the way also, so you also demonstarte that you enjoy her company and and you're having fun with her. If you escelate during that whole process you get:
PLAYFULNESS + ESCELATING + COMFORT (Rapport by demonstrating) = SEXUAL FRAME
From there on it all goes into the bedroom.
I think Sinn said something like: ''Attraction is attractive and seduction is seductive.'' Well that's the whole formula on ^top.
Anyway the bottom line is if you REALLY like the girl you'll REALLY show that to her and she'll be REALLY attracted to you, because everything you're doing isn't fake and she knows that she has nothing to worry about if she goes into bed with you
Nice post bro keep up the good work man.
BTW here's my example of demonstrating that I'm into her:
Me: ''I've gotta tell you something I'm a real adrenaline junkie?''
Girl: ''Really, me to.''
Me: ''Oh yeah, what's the carziest thing you did the last time.''
Girl: ''I went rockclimbing.''
Me: ''That's cool I went rockclimbing a few weeks ago and I tell you the adrenaline rush when you look down is just amazing.''
Girl: ''Yeah I know.''
Me: ''And when you come to the top, it's the best feeling in the world, it's like nothing else matters.''
Girl: ''That's true, that's why I like to do it.''
Me: ''Great we'should get together sometimes and go climbing and to get better we can make a parachute jump from the top.''
At the begining you just throw a hook out and if she's into the same thing, she'll bait, from there on you built rapport by speaking with enthusiasm (she'll get sucked in) and in the end you challenge her and boom you've just set up a date with her