Okay gentlemen here the situation: im a cook, and we just hired a new server who is going to be a senior in high school. i am going to be a freshman in college. Shes a hb 10 for her age but about a 8 for a guy like me. i wasn't really sure how to approach this one. when she first started i immediately introduced myself to her (alpha male right?) and then I gave her a little too much attention that night, so the next night i backed off and made most of our interactions negs. she laughed the negs off just as i expected, i placed them very smoothly and confidently with a smile (so thats good). but what i thought i would do now since i am older and more experienced then she is, and because she is used to constant attention from males her age, i was going to start turning the cold shoulder and ignoring her a little bit. you know not letting her know where she stands with me, acting like ive been around before and she aint all that special.

is this the right way to handle the situation?

because we work in a high stress busy environment there isn't much time for rapport or traditional gaming so attraction building is a process.

advice?

sorry bout the run on sentences

-thanks

Ignoring her isn't the general way to build attraction. Flip some of those switches!

1. Preselection
2. Leader of men
3. Protector of loved ones.
4. Willingness to emote
5. Risk taker

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