alright how ive messaged this girl and were havign a conversation
now i ask her what she likes in guys she says nice,goodlooking and athletic and i say you do not like nice guys.. (HB 8.5 ish give or take 5)
now i tell her girls dont like nic eguys they want a challange.. and she goes yes i do play hard to get, i know you do and i do 2, then blah blash blah then i think she goes "i dont think not better than anybody else if thats what ur saying" ( i was saying she was conceaded jp course) now insted of answering i go "stop staring at my pic =P" now was that the right move and do i have time to change

sorry for the long message if its confusing ill strighten it out more

I like your ending sentence about staring at your picture. that was good to reframe the convo, because the convo was in her frame, you were asking her what she likes in guys, frankly, who gives a ___ what she likes in guys, your the shit and thats all that counts...

how can i get it back in my reframe?

Anything talking about you. The "stop staring at my pic" , was the thing that reframed it to you.....

When you bring girls on dates, always do it in your frame. Never ask what she is doing or what movie she wants to see. It's always " Hey, im going out to ____ tonight, come join me ! "


obviously dont always make everything about you at all times, or the girl will think yourselfish. but most of the time, bring the girl in your frame, at the begining of the interactions is key.... like the first 3-4 dates

pretty much be like im doing this, and i dont this this pretty much say stuff i do and say stufff about me?

I mean in terms of inviting her on dates, say where your going and tel her to join YOU. Becuase your Alpha.

When it comes down to getting to know each other, you can talk rotate who your talking about.

But, when you guys are teasin each other back and forth, you always want to win and turn the table by reframing it. like "you wish" " you love it" or "quit thinking about me" "quit staring at my picture"..