Okay, I've seen a lot of posts that discourage the use of texting to escalate, build attraction, etc...And claims that texting should only be used to set up dates?

Is this also true for teenage game? I mean, let's be honest. That's all that teenage girls and guys do. The dude gets the number, they might go on a few dates, but other than that, 3/4 of all conversations that take place are straight up texting 24/7. I don't know why, but that's how it is.

My question is, as an 17 year old trying to get poon in a HS setting, would it be wise to just follow the social calibration and text girls?

Or would it be wise to change it up, and only use texts when I need to use it for logistical purposes? And make sure to escalate in person?

And please no bias, I'd like to know what I should do in my situation. The problem I'm having is I feel that if I don't text a girl I gamed, thanks to social calibration she's going to expect me to text her and once I don't she'll lost interest.

Somebody please clear this up for me. Thank you.

Hi...

We don't support pedophilia here. Technically if you're 18 and you're trying to do "high school game" that's.....pedophilia. And last I checked, this forum goes with U.S. laws.

But...if you re-edited your original post to say ...18 year old girls than "TEEN" game....it would help A LOT.

Dude, I'm in highschool gaming other 18 year olds, it's not like I'm the guy sitting in the white van outside the school waiting for the bell to ring so I can stalk prey.

BUT, changed my age to 17. We're good now.

LOL.....

Just hit on the girls. Who cares. Problem with high school "game" is it is so social-circle oriented its not even funny. You'd be better off gaming in a public place with high school girls than trying to game IN your school. Girls generally in high schools do social circle game/hook up with guys in their school or some reputation nonsense and are generally....in my opinion, underdeveloped in what they want.

All I know is when I was 17, I was dating college girls and found it a much more amazing experience than my chode friends who were so desperate to hook up with girls in high school that came with baggage of waiting for the relationship to go anywhere and not to mention the whole college process of people moving.

You're 17 so gaming in high school is relatively pointless at this stage and logistically many girls won't care for it. Not saying you can't get some on the side, but you'd have to find a girl wanting to do a quicky and it may not be your ideal type of girl.

Hm, okay, noted.

I also truly believe social game is fucking retarded. Why? Background on me. I had 4 LTRs in high school with the quote and quote "hottest" girls and I barely had any fundamentals of game. None. I didn't care for the women or losing them (turns out this is one core fundamental) but it was by a serious lack of my own willpower / choice. I ran varsity track, was fit (Still am), and had great grades and all this bullshit while being known by most of the diverse groups of the school (black, white, mexican etc).

Naturally, I carried some reputation as "that guy" and some girls gave me such value, I didn't have to "game" much. In all reality, this is a dark concept of pick up which is advanced. Many girls at that stage didn't care if I was an asshole (i wasnt) or if i was even good with women or not, I just didnt care and they selfishly wanted to see if they could "change that" many girls tried to dramatize my life and i didnt care much for it. I liked girls don't get me wrong, but .....lol they were frustrated because i knew it was bound to break up anyways due to moving situations. Girls would be raged and their ego's would be hurt.

There has to be a part of the game that can be useful? I mean, if I know a girl is talking to 30 other guys, I know I have to be unique to get her attention. I'm not a 10/10 on the looks. There's gotta be some useful shit in this community for HS game, you just crushed my dreams, lol.

All I'm saying is, as a guy take your chance. If the girl is "surrounded by guys" then realize it doesn't matter about your looks, but realistically a girl being exposed to such influences will naturally MAY or may not go solely on your looks, she may see something in you she sees in no one else, and all this stuff. Now obviously, you don't know any of this.

As a man, you put yourself in the situation and you see if shes worth it. Realize, this girl has done nothing to deserve you...so why do you go up trying to "be different" or "show something unique" the reality is those guys can be all-star varsity athletes, etc etc and there's nothing you can do and say that will be more unique than just being yourself.

Now...unless you're a complete social outcast/fucking freak that hangs around corners and thinks about suicide 24/7 then...perhaps its best do develop inner-game strength than "Being yourself." But like most kids, most men, you're "normal" and so all you have to do is go up, don't be afraid of the girl, and realize while you may not be a varsity track runner or the QB of the football team, you're a cool dude. And realize...she may not be your type. Realize this fucking fact.

I could obviously tell you the answer you're looking for. Dude do this and this, and she'll fucking love you for it! Omg no guy has ever done it, but thats not what game is about. it's not about pick-up lines and lies and trying to show her 'magic tricks' or any of that bullshit. It's about realistically doing what you are congruent with/your personality : being yourself.

Problem is this is the hardest thing to do for 99.9% of guys because they don't even know themselves.

Fuck I need some alcohol.

Like...I'm sorry if this was a harsh reality but there are some girls out there that based on their life experiences, are actually self-centered, shallow, manipulative, ego-maniacal, and wildly unsure of themselves and hate certain races of guys and what not.

The fact is you can't predict the future.

Nah dude, I just thought there was some depth to this. Say that two equal social status guys chase a girl, is there not a game factor to it? Who has the best game? Who is she going to go for? The dude that is a complete bitch that lets her control him, or the alpha guy who's badass and in control?

Or does it not work that way? Is it just... "Guy A is black, I want him" "Guy B, you're white and you're fucked" or "Guy A, you're a starting point guard, fuck me. "Guy B, you sit bench, you're fucked"

So what you're telling me, the best looking guy in high school is always going to win? Even if he's a dimwitted cunt drooling over himself. Flowers and "hey let's go to the movies, hurr durr" is going to work?

I'm saying yes. Realistically, for some girls, if you're black, you're in. If you're white you are fucked. For other girls, its the opposite. For some, they care solely on good looks, for others it may not matter as much as you think it does. Two 'socially equal' guys (say two nerds) going for the same girl in an isolated ideal environment will obviously have different personalities. There is DEPTH to this, but there is nothing you can say/do that will work for every girl. Being "alpha" and all this bullshit is pick up myth.

If you really want to "Be alpha" then hit the gym kiddo, and get buff as fuck, because this is what real 'alpha' is. And with these muscles, guys become entitled and don't truly give a fuck about girls. But, there are some buff looking guys that have no verbal game and go to a girl and they act needy like some dweeb, and never get with her.

Some girls, may find this big muscular neediness "cute" and fuck the shit out of him. Others, it varies. I hate to say this reality: pick up is truly bullshit because every girl IS different. There is depth to it (changing your pussy self and going up to girls, and not relying on their responses as a do-all end all, and realizing some girls it was never meant to be with) - but thats where "depth ends" There is no tactic or tricks you use to "bed" a girl if she's seriously not into a black dude or you - a guy who isn't that hot with her friends.

Anyone claiming to be "so amazing and good" and "not leaving the club with at least 20 makeouts" is full of shit.

Yes and no.

Texting can work for playful banter, and dropping in sexual comments to escalate.

But obviously the seduction has to take place face to face. Thats common sense.

Yeah, this is actually true as fuck. Post of the month.

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It speaks a lot about relative values with types of women. The thing is, as men that are nervous, we create ideas in our head: what if she thinks I'm ugly, what if im not her "type" what if I'm not etc etc. The fact is, you never know your PERCEIVED value.

I've went up to girls who have directly said "I don't date BROWN guys" I'm not even brown but do you see where the depth really is. The white man will have an easier time with this girl. Now obviously, I kept it light and I laughed at it and said...good I DONT DATE blonde bitches *smile* And she laughed and this girl became my girlfriend. All I'm saying is, it could go either way. As men, we have to not be so outcome dependent.