Hey Guys! I'm new to the science of pick up. Literally, I just made the account to just ask this question.

I'm curious to know how can I bring myself out into a conversation with another girl. Not just a woman, but anyone regarding small talk. Generally, I lack interest talking to a girl unless she's hot, then my heart moves and talks on its own which tends to sometimes work... Sometimes

I'm 23 years old, most girls I've been with, which are many, are without a spoken word or very minimal in conversation. I've been with many girls and it's due to my alpha like personality and maybe my looks and interests. I've held a relationship for 2 years once and am great at deep conversation but personally, I've always been one to stay away from small talk.

My goal here is to NOT place myself in an area of dominance towards anyone reading this but to vent my frustration. With all my strengths, I have a huge weakness that I'm not proud of. I struggle to bring the introvert personality aside and bring out my happy extroverted self.

A solution to this problem will bring such a change in the quality of life and I think this is the place to ask such a question. Also, I'm so down to be someone's wing sometime to learn <3, I live in NY