Here’s the situation. There’s someone I really like, she liked me back in November when I didn’t have the balls to admit to her that I wanted to be with her. Since then, I’ve cocked up fairly big time… by dating her best friend. Not the best idea I know but it felt a lot less scary than actually having a relationship with someone I liked so I did it…

Since then, I think I’ve probably gone totally AFC on her ass, and now, she’s giving me a bunch of excuses as to why she cant go out with me, I’ve had LJBF, I can’t lose someone else (the guy she used to date has just left the country), you mean to much to me, I’ll only cheat on you, I can’t date my best friends Ex.

So what do I do, at the moment the usual cure of getting with another ten other women doesn’t really seem feasible… I'd love to have a relationship with her, which I guess would be my ideal but dunno what to do.

move on

exactly.. she's helping you out by telling you those things. Just forget about her, there are too many fish in the sea to even be havin a relationship in highschool, if you are in highschool that is.

recovering from LJBF is possible, but it takes ALOT of skill... best bet is to move on as the other guys said.


i recently had a huge oneitis and i thought she was the best woman for me hands down, and was feeling down on myself because of the loss... then i met two other women who trump the first one in every way, there is always a better one just around the corner