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A girl ive known for a while at least 1 year now. we've had a mutual relationship and i am considered memorable to her.
we've started talking again in the past 2 weeks.

mostly online.
Whenever I leave online, she complains about how I always leave so early or mad if I only stay for only a few minutes.

I give excuses such as, work, more important things to do (she said "whats more important than talking to me?") or nap time.

she makes it seem like a game. She says, "one day im going to be the one who leaves first in our conversations"

one day she actually did leave first. and she said "Ha! i left first! I win!"
I said "Good job! Do you want a medal?"
She said "Yes I do! make me one!"
I said" Nah I'm good.
then it continued from there.

Its the same thing every time i say im going to go.
She says
"NO!!"
"GRR"
"You always leave"

I say "its okay, you'll get over it"
She says
"grrr,
fine.
loser
bye"

sometimes in occasion she would say "___ is a gaylord!"



But The Questions Are:

Will constantly leaving the conversation first eventually annoy her?
Should I Stay longer and talk alot more and how long should i stay? (I stay about roughly 10 minutes each time)
What should I do everytime she brings up me leaving?
Is the way she is acting a good thing or bad thing?

Thank you for your time and patience

i don't know if nap time is a good excuse to leave the conversation, but keeping them short is imo a dhv as long as you instill that you are a busy man and are only on to check your email or something like that.

just my two cents

Sounds like she's enjoying your conversations, leaving first leaves her wanting more (assuming there's attraction of course).

somehow make it seem like your really busy but had to sign on for a little bit just to talk to her or if you're already in a converstaion with her like:

"oh be right back im gonna get ready for (event)." come back and say "hey i gotta go my friends are outside but i had to come back to say bye to you. dont wait up for me babe, ill be ok =] "

and just leave

you leave so early all the time i get the feeling that you leave her feeling empty, you might wanna leave next time making her feel like shes special, thus the whole reason why you signed on.

Yeah its a good thing. She appreciates and enjoys the time you make for her, and by leaving early it just makes her want it even more.
You did a good thing by not giving her exactly what she wants and not giving in to her. But there's needs to be the right amount of push/pull, you cant have all push without no pull, otherwise she'll get completely pissed off & ignore you. Good stuff man.

(I like the way she said 'i win', she knows its a game. now things are even because men have started playing games too.)

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mozy is right you need to pull a lil more give into her a lil don't cut the convo short everytime. you said you talk to her 10 min everytime another day talk 20 min just do it to break the pattern every once in a awhile.

thank you for all the help. i appreciate it.

Erm, from a woman's perspective?
This chick is going to turn out to be your stalker, no doubt threatening suicide if you ever break-up from here.
Make it clear what you're willing to do for her...
That or just fuck her once and run away...FAST.
Unless you want a serious, long-term relationship that's frustrating and takes alot of work on your behalf in return for unconditional love(and I do mean unconditional O_O EEEEH.).

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