Sup guys?

Quick question:

Do you think getting help from a girl is not a good idea? I have a girl friend who sometimes helps me with homework and stuff and I get advice from her a lot cos shes pretty smart. I try to help her out a bit too tho usually in other ways non-school related.

But I was thinking about this and I don't know if its a good idea cos it increases her value. But she seems to like giving advice too.

Maybe its to do with the way you ask for help?

Anyone got any thoughts on this?

Are you trying to game her one day? If not then I think your over analyzing the situation. Your just two friends helping each other out. If you are however being so close with her already can help you come in under the radar.

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I dont understand...are you trying to game her or are you just friends?

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

Are you saying your debating asking her for advice on picking up other chicks?

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ok...so you're not sure if she helping you, would gave a bad image that you alway need her help or something?
aren't friend suppose to help each other?

you're just over thinking about it too much

_Saiko

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Hey guys,

Sorry if it wasn't clear.

Theres a long story behind it but basically, I am trying to game her. She helps me out with school work (non-PU related stuff).

I have been trying to fly under the radar as Fluff said, by arranging study sessions. I'm planning to get together with her for a study session, work for a while and then say something like 'you know we've been at this for hours... we deserve a break... lets go grab a coffee (or something) and turn it into an 'off the cuff' date.

Anyone got any thoughts on this or the other stuff I asked last time?

Well it sounds like you are deep in the friends zone, so i'd say the first thing to do is to get out of there.
Start flirting ALOT more to show your intention. Throw in sexual jokes, start commenting her on how she looks great (dont jump to sexy, work your way up to it)

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LOL -yeah I know. Its complex -I've known her for a while and wasn't really inteerested in her till recently. I'm trying to get things rolling in a sexual direction tho.

Thats one reason I wanted to set up the coffee date -cos everytime I've talked to her has been at school or at soccer and one time chillin with mates. If I could take her some place new it would be easier to make things sexual cos its a 'new type of situation' and more of a 'date'.

But Im still interested in learing your thoughts on the whole -letting her teach me things bussiness.

cheers