| Hey there,
Pretty new here, and my game is fairly terrible… However, I do have a decent psychological understanding…
I've come up with a couple of ideas, and developed a couple which I've read here (sorry, but I can't give credit to the original creators, my memory is poor and search is returning nothing).
Anyway, my first is embedding a boyfriend destroyer into a sort of question game, which also allows you to get to know her, and you to DHV. Plus, you can get a drink out of it. My worry about this is that you come across a little needy, or too interested… but the fact that you can embed a boyfriend destroyer is good enough.
Here's an idea of what I mean — if you know she has a boyfriend (and he's not around):
PUA: Let's play a game... we each get to ask each other 3 questions, and you have to answer completely honestly [opportunity for a neg?] — and if you don't answer, you have to buy me a drink [note that it's phrased such that there's no mention of you buying her a drink, and of course, there's a bit of an embedded suggestion, albeit a useless one].
Her: Okay…
PUA: You can go first.
Her: ???????
PUA: Answer [use your answers to DHV!]
Her: ???????
PUA: Another answer.
Her: ???????
PUA: Another answer.
Her: Your turn!
PUA: Okay… ????????? [probably best not to ask about her boyfriend right away… perhaps a difficult question that can win you a drink!]
Her: Answer…… [try to neg her on it!]
PUA: What's your favourite part about being in a relationship?
Her: Answer…… [probably commitment, security, etc. or maybe just sex!]
--This is your time to start a boyfriend destroyer--
PUA [in this example, she chose commitment or security or something like that]: Really? Girls always seem to claim to like commitment early on, but as soon as they get into it they're always looking elsewhere… it's like they lose interest in their partner simply because he's available… and start looking for passion [point to self] elsewhere. And commitment can be quite boring… you seem like the sort of girl who prefers more wild fun [opportunity for neg? perhaps someone better than me could do something] with someone [gesture to yourself] who can give you pleasure… [you get the idea… keep running patterns, pointing out problems with commitment… if she says sex, you can just jump straight to talking about sex/passion and subtly pointing out why relationships don't give her that]
Her: yeah… i guess.
PUA: Anyway! Question 3! ???????? [probably best here to leave the boyfriend topic, lest you seem needy!]
Her: Answer…
etc.
Anyway, I'm not so sure about it, but it seems like a GREAT way to hide a bf destroyer.
There's a couple of K-Closes I read, not sure where… But I'd like to know what you all think of them nonetheless:
1.
PUA: I have something for you, remind me to give it to you later.
Her: Okay!! [probably all intrigued and excited, you're generating interest here!]
LATER
PUA: Okay, close your eyes and put out your hand.
-She does.-
At this point you take her hand and kiss her.
The only problem I can see with this is that her eyes would be closed, so you might end up kissing a closed mouth…
2.
PUA: Do you like surprises?
Her: Yes/No/Not sure/anything else.
WHATEVER she answers, kiss her. If she said no, whether or not you get the k-close, say this:
PUA: Ahh! I forgot you didn't like surprises!
Otherwise, if she pulls/turns away:
PUA: Oh, apparently you don't… anyway… [transition to something else]
Other than this, I've got a question:
If you're trying to get out of the LJBF zone, how quickly should you escalate kino? And how should you go about doing it? Wouldn't it shock her that you went from nothing/very little to loads of touch?
Thanks!
-BH
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