Okay, I am pretty new to the whole idea of attracting women and becoming more dominant because throughout my highschool years I was crushed by low self esteem (for no reason) and basically dysmorphia.

This year, I have completely changed my attitudes (from submissive to dominant, from self-conscious to carefree) and continue to do so in an attempt to raise my attractiveness. It has worked, very well infact. I am good looking, have an attractive body and I am pretty unique- my problem lies in my inability to clinch. I am able to get close enough to hookup with or date a girl, but I am rarely able to seal the deal and actually hookup with them or make a move. This ultimately leads to a tapering off of the attraction and either I, or the girl or both eventually forget about eachother. I know that alot of this is self-confidence and nervousness, which I am working on but I am hoping to eliminate that quicker. I have a friend that somehow hangs out with a girl, and has sex with them every time. I know it's not easy, but he makes it seem incredibly easy.

Right now, I have several women that are willing to sleep with me, but I have little idea of how to actually get it done. Does anyone have access to any suggested reads or information on closing a deal, and actually hooking up with the girl?

Thanks for reading.

have you gotten anywhere with any of these girls?

depending on the advances you have made so far, i might beable to pitch you some pretty good ideas...

I have made out with a couple of them but that's about it. I also have a problem with wanting what I can't have, and then when I get it which I usually am able to do, I don't want it anymore as badly or I choke.


I think that I could be pretty crude with my approach while drunk at a party or something and they would be willing, but I still have no idea how to initiate.

to it doesnt look like you are having a problem at all... its not initiating or closing in general... you are enjoying the "chase" and after the chase is over you're kind of finished... i do the same thing sometimes... im in it for the chase, and im proud of it lol... the girls hate it, but i love it...