Ok so I know this girl through school and she'd given me her myspace. I was in the process of getting her number today in class when the teacher called us out on it. So I sent this message to her today. There's her response.



hahahaha i might be fun? hahahaha yeah xxxxx town's gay. how bout you give me your digits and i'll hit you up
-xxxxxx

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Bennjimin
Date: May 7, 2008 12:12 PM


You know you seem might like you might actually be fun, even if you are from xxxxx
Leme get your digits and maybe I'll hit you up sometime.

~Bennjimin




What do I say to this? I have no intention of giving her the power by giving her my number. How do I take control of this frame? Also she has a boyfriend (seems like most of the girls I run into at school already have some guy?) so any helpful BF destroyers would be awesome too.

Thanks guys,
~Bennjimin

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There is nothing wrong with giving her your number. Don't let game-psychology rule your every little action.

To answer your question:

"Nah, I've had some really bad girl stalkers, so I don't give my number out - I've got some time at that-date - and I'd like to take you out for blah-blah, are you free that day?"

Keys :
+verbalize the stalker fear of giving out numbers
+insinuate that you're busy and have a little time
+tell her you would like to see her
+assume she wants to see you

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Thanks man yeah i tend to play into "rules" a bit too hard. I ended up telling her that I'm going to go pick out a gift for my mom for mothers day on saturday and that I wanted her to come with me.
I'll report back once she replies!

~Bennjimin

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