So I met a girl at a party back in november k closed got her number and we were suppose to go out the next day. I was still drunk the next morning and crashed my car (no dui, just stupid of me) we didn't go out the next day for obvious reason and I felt like everything in my life was falling apart and I tried to cling to her. Well it was too much and she said we should just be friends, and I was coming on too strong.

Started talking to her on aim after a few months, deleted her number from my phone book and wanted to put it behind me. We go out and see the movie 21. I know a horrible choice for a real first date but whatever, I wanted to see the movie, and she did too, so we went, I paid for both tickets :\ i know i know shame on me

we talk once in awhile on aim, nothing of meaning really, but today I wanted to hang out with some girl for some reason so she was on aim and I asked her if she wanted to do something today. She said she was busy, fair enough i said nothing else, she asked well what did you have in mind. I tell her don't worry about we'll get together when youre not busy. She then suddenly has time for me.

So I invite her over to make cookies. I really wanted some home made cookies, and everytime I try to make them, they get stuck to the pan, or burnt or never taste good, so she basically did all the work I did some stirring, we made them and started watching superbad.

She laid in my lap after i put my arm around her. I asked her what she thought was more sexy kisses on the neck or kisses on the ear, she said neck but I couldn't bring myself to kiss her on the ear for some reason, or at all. She had this coarse cough that she says she's had for 3 weeks, so I wasn't thinking much of kissing her when she left, but told her to give me a hug.

So they're shooting guns in superbad, and I tell her we should go to the gun/shooting range as I have never been before. She totally wants to come and we're going on thusday.

Now I know youre all thinking you pussy why haven't you kissed her or anything? Well that little comment "youre coming on too strong I see us just as friends" really stuck with me, but thursday I'm going to.

I know she wants to talk, but im having trouble saying anything as I now see myself being very careful what i say, not to sound needy, to sound authoritative. I guess what im asking is how to keep up the convo but keep tying things to sex.

Make her talk of the best memories she has about sexual discoveries.. what she liked, what she loved, which are the best memories-images of her past experiences and so on...

I would use the event, going to a shooting range together to see what emotions you can prevoke her to experience about you. For example "The feeling of holding onto a powerful gun with both hands", then look down

Either way it sounds like your able to have some fun with this lass, so go for it and totally enjoy the time you spend with her. Kissing her and the rest of the evening is just purely a bonus.

I know she wants to talk, but im having trouble saying anything as I now see myself being very careful what i say, not to sound needy, to sound authoritative. I guess what im asking is how to keep up the convo but keep tying things to sex.

Use her 'attraction' if you want to tie things to sex, not your words. You can keep a sexual vibe going with a girl without saying anything related to, or hinting towards sex.

Your presence and demeanor can produce a sexual energy, or an AFC energy.

You are giving her way to much power when concerning yourself with how she responds. If she responds positively, great...build on that. If not, figure out what might have gone wrong (and this doesn't necessarily mean it's your fault) and move on.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Give her a little and then take it back. youre really sexy but so are lots of other girls what else do u have going for u.