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| aim2pleezdj | PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 5:32 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:50 am Posts: 42 | | So Im in a dilemma,
This girl that im hanging out with,
when we first started hanging out, the bill would come at dinner or something and she would offer to pay because she says I always paid for her...
but im like fuck it wutever, its not a big deal cuz its not, and never let her pay for it.
but the last 2 times we went out to eat she didnt even bother to make an attempt to offer to pay anymore...I GUESS IT BECAME EXPECTED in her mind that I WOULD pay.
So how do I recondition her in a cocky funny way...
I was thinking something like a game, and i say if I win then youre paying for the next dinner.
ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE?
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| NOILLUSION | PostPosted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 5:53 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Apr 20, 2008 1:10 am Posts: 157 Website: http://december-31.livejournal.com | | Nah I think you're making this harder than it is. And it's kind of your fault that it ended up like this, because she did offer to pay before but you turned her down. I think she doesn't offer to pay anymore because she thinks it will offend you if she does. Like it'll make you seem like a wuss or whatever.
You just gotta let her know straight up, you don't have to do C&F.
I had a date recently where, I paid for dinner because she paid for bowling. We just kind of agreed to it without really going into much of a debate.
Next time you go out to eat be like, "Hey, you're paying this time."
Most likely she'll say "okay." Or she may even take that as C&F, either way, make it clear to her that she's paying. lol _________________ "I use to believe when a girl said she love me, but now I take off, don't look back and keep runnin. A hundred MPH Im hidin my smile but now I find time just for writin it down" -Equipto
"Life's not a bitch, Life is a beautiful woman" -Aesop Rock
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