I have met very nice girl and I like her. We met each other several time.

She gives me many signals as if she wanted me as long term bf.
We have a great connection, feel very comfortably with each other.
We are often kissing, but rarely making out - I don't know, maybe she is not ready yet or sth. She often cuddles up to me, snuggles her face into my shoulder when we are walking or sitting. She once tells me sth about her and then trying to say good things about her, as if she wanted me to think of her as a mature, reliable person - she is 19.

As we could say in high school, I have a gf. And I want her as my gf, but I wonder if I have to f-close her asap. I want to sleep with her, but I am not needy and I can wait if she is not ready.

But I don't know, we meet each other 4 times (and it was more than famous 7 or even 10 hours so far), maybe I should already think of closing her, try to get her into seduction location and escalate?

May she loose interest ant attraction towards me if I don't push the relationship to the sexual level on next dates/meetings?
Or maybe should I wait and let all happen "naturally"?

I feel I want her as a long term gf, but don't know how fast should I escalate.

Hi

I think it is something you'll have to spot in her. Every girl is a little world.

One key question is she being virgin or not. If she is, then the scenery of her leaving you because you haven't f-closed her, is not on your short term horizon.

It is not always the case, but for her demeanor, you can tell, she seem to belong to the relaxed type. Hence, you night take your time, encompass her... and enjoy the journey.

Good luck.

tzk

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like tzk said..depends whether shes a virgin or not..of she is, escalate slow. if not you can affort to be 'spontaneous' while making out and grab something and see how she reacts from there..she might like it...

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Thanks, I'll try to escalate physically as soon as we'll be in my or her room, especially when there will be no roommates.
I think doing that in bar, club or on a walk is not a good idea