So, I met this girl at work a couple of months ago. Basically, we text and while texting one day she told me that she had to confess something to me and it would be between "us". Also, she said it's personal. Then a couple of days later, she messages me and then tells me to call her, so then I did but the call didn't take place until the next day. On the call, she mentioned she wanted to talk to me about herself and I told her that I wanted to get to know her. However, the meet up never happened just cause she kept on changing the times/days.

PS. to make things more complicated, I also know that there is a guy at work that has been after her for almost a year and now she is basically ignoring him.

So, what sense do you guys make of this?

I wouldn't try to make sense of this. This is one girl that's proven that she's not overly concerned about meeting with you and that's all I would need to know. She's not significant enough to be concerned about.

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Why do men do this? Isn't this implied? It's no different than saying "I really like you".

Where is the challenge? Where is the centered behavior? you have a woman you're attracted to telegraphing her interest. Pick up the phone, shut the fuck up, and listen to her spill her feelings. Find out if she's good enough for YOU.

I think she reached out, and you acted like a pussy. And now she lost interest.

See other women and don't contact her again until she contacts you. When she contacts you, let her chase you and spill her feelings. Don't act like a fucking 15 year old boy.

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