For example, I walk across a set on the streets. I could go and start a conversation, but I feel I am being fake. I don't want to talk with them, I just want to touch her friend (excuse my cave-man thinking). I honestly can't force that friendliness, so what's left for me to do?

Walk right up to the one you like: "Can I borrow you for a second." The other girls: Swooning/curious looks in their eyes. Move a few feet away from the group. Flirt with her, have your interaction with her, get her #, go on with your day, hear her friends giggle when she rejoins them.

Don't be rude to the group but basically your concern is not the group. You don't have to be Mr. Friendly Mr. Entertain The Group. You see someone you like, go speak to her.

So you're saying you don't want to have a conversation you just want to be physical?

In essence what you're saying is, you don't want to give anyone what they want(and interesting conversation), you just want to take from them what it is you want? I don't think it's "fakeness" or lack of being friendly.. It's just selfishness. You're all about your own wants and needs. And people that only consider themselves only have themselves.

You improve them by learning how things that benefit other people, can also benefit you. Perhaps it can offer you a boost of confidence, you may get a few compliments, and/or make a new friend that you can hang out with and/or get laid. Theres lots of benefits to being social and exchanging energy with other people. The same way a negative person can pull you down, getting into dialogs and interactions with positive people can bring you up higher than you could get on your own.

Once you see the value in doing the things that help other people, you'll find it easier to do them. That or just walk up to girls and go cave man. Im sure theres a small section of girls out there without the self worth to care. You just have to find them.

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