| My first time in the fielding, attempting pickup techniques. I found approaches very hard, even though I told myself 5 I only approached a single-set with my friend. Eventually, my friend who is a far bigger AFC than me, takes my arm and walks up to a girl and takes his hand out saying "Hey I'm X, this is my friend, nice to meet you". I can easily do this, however I learnt in mystery method it gives the nice guy impression so I don't like doing that. So we start speaking, and I start building rapport "what school you go to, whats your name". At this point I realised that she was drunk as FUCK. Since we had no opener, I had no choice but to make small talk. A boy who previously spoke to her approaches and she says "I really wanna make out with this kid", (talking about this new kid) and they start making out. So I say fuck it and leave. 5 minutes later I'm getting a drink, and I notice this girl standing near me with her back to me. I remember mystery with the proximity thing, talking about how girls are near you. So I said Fuck it, and walked up to her and said the drug dealer opener. Whilst using it I didn't feel as if I was showing any social value to be honest, I felt like I was just speaking to a drunk girl. Then I used a false time constraint right after the opener, and right after that, she said "lets drink". We drink and cos of the IOI'S I just lean in. We make out and heres where it gets weird:
She starts tossing me off in front of everyone, and I stop her, take her upstairs and continue.
I finger her and like 10 of her friends walk into the room and she pretends to act super drunk, like paralytic. So I rush out and me and my friend leave the mansion.
This was my first time,
Firstly, in the context of this situation, could you tell me things I should have added in to employ higher Social value?
Secondly, what did I do wrong and what did I do right?
This was my first time and it was totally fucking weird.
5yfer.
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