| First and foremost id like to add before i begin, im not a horrible looking guy yet not a stunner, Id say im 7 out of 10, great shape. And i could handle myself well whenever i speak to a random girl. I honestly dont feel any discomfort when speaking to a new girl.
So there is a place next to my apartment that serves the community and there is this cute Okinawan working there. I went in there to speak with her about 4 days ago and it went really well. We talked about quiet a few things and i got her to laugh most of the time we were talking. I would say she enjoyed my company. I also told her that she is very pretty, i only complomented her about 3 times and when ever i did she laughed but never said thank you haha. She just talked her self out of it. And she is also interested in Spanish, which i can speak. And she's also interested in my culture
We spoke for about 20 minutes. We shared interests and id say we connected. I then asked for her line and she gave me it. She needed to leave becuase the place was closing and i helped out. As she was about to leave I told her that i would come by to help out again the next day. I texted her the same day about 3 hours after we spoke and she hasn't replied since, and i know i screwed up there becuase it was a lengthy text, i said i hoped she had a safe ride home and i then told her if she ate yet. I recently looked up the proper ways to text and this was def the opposite of what i should be doing. She also looked at the message as it indicated "read".
I told her i would help out again as she entered her car she said "ok, see you tomorrow, good night"
So she didn't text back but i still went to help out. I went to the place and the supervisor was there. She was busy cleaning. I decided to speak to him, and to save another story, we connected pretty well and he then went off for a small break. Within that break i tried to speak to her, but she was a little busy, i wasn't able to help. I told her if she needed help in Spanish, she said she couldn't understand and also said that she is cleaning right now, she did not want to be bothered.
So we did not end up speaking after. So i directed my attention to the supervisor and showed him a talent of mine. Im able to beatbox really well and he also is a DJ so i decided to show him a bit while she was nearby to try to get her atenttion. After i was done, i glanced at her and she was smiling a bit. Id say she was probably impressed and didn't expect that from me as no one would. So, me and the manager spoke the whole time and then she left saying her good byes. Id like to say she directed them more towards her supervisor than me.
So, she hasn't texted back and i dont want it to look like im desperate . I will not text her again until she texts back. So im thinking about going to the place and just meet other people that work there to try to make it look like im ignoring her to try to get her more interested. And also, im really good at meeting new people, once i get the ball rolling im usually the guy of the room.
What should i do next gents? Please criticize as much as possible, do not hold back
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