Hey Guys! Hope you all are doing great!
Well,a girl I made out with last night in a nightclub told me so.
After being kissing for a while She literally said "You are a bit insipid/wishy washy". I responded "Do you think so?" And kissed her right away. (Yes it was a nonexpected-response question).
I knew it was not a test, cause I've been told it several times in the past.
Despite of supposedly being "insipid", after I had to go with my group of friends again (because of a thing), she did not stop looking at me and expecting me to come back.
The thing is that I have been told it by several girls in the past, and it really pisses me off. Although the girls that told me so kept meeting up with me and feeling attraction towards me , I really want to change that aspect and to improve it.
I figure that when they say that, they mean that I am not sexually active enough, or even good kisser (Although a girl who told me so in the past also told me that I kissed pretty good). But anyway I am not 100% sure of what they mean yet.
I am not sure of how I should answer when they tell me that either.
And also, I am not sure of how I can improve it.
Thanks for replying guys!

The girls you date say "insipid" or use the word in a sentence while making out with you? WTF?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

they mean either
1.you're a mega faggot
2.you have gorgonzola breath

By insipid I mean "wishy washy", "quiet".
Not all the girls but yeah some of them.