My conversations with women are usually about studies, country of origin, interests or the place we are at. Maybe those subjects could be made more engaging or funny, but not that much with me. Usually they are not funny and there's little laughing involved. Sometimes it can be more interesting though, but I just don't know how to progress to the next level and make it more intimate/sexual.

Actually, not just with conversations, just in general I don't know at all what to do to get a girl interested to do something intimate. Perhaps even if a girl is interested I still wouldn't know how to handle that. I am just too serious when socializing, especially with women

I just would like to know how to make this shift from casual to having an intimate time or relationship with a women, cause as of now I always get stuck in the casual stage no matter how easy or hard to get the girl is.

You: hi
Her: hi
You: your ass is riduculous. I appreciate the effort, there's a lot of big ones in this town.

Just speak your mind. Be completely honest (except with feelings). If her hair does it for you, say that. But don't use generic terms like "hot" or "you're beautiful". Women don't expect to hear honesty...they expect nice guy jibber jabber like your studies talk.

Being congruent and playfully honest cuts through mundane small talk and creates intimacy much faster.

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So less seriousness? Cause I think I am too serious usually. What do you mean to be not honest on feelings? Like not admitting you have feelings for her? Saying things as you are suggesting can be very nerve wracking though, not sure if I can bring myself to say such honest things like that though I will try

When you reach the point you don't worry about outcome, and youre playfully teasing and physically fit, you'll have your pick of women, and get annoyed at the ones who bug you.

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I'm going to go ahead and guess that the majority if not all of the women you're talking to and trying to get intimate with are either women online or women you've known for sometime in your social circles.

Have you actually went out of your comfort zone and approached a thousand women? You don't know how to go from casual to intimate/sexual but you are not an intimate/sexual kind of guy. You haven't out in the effort that an intimate guy has put in. You don't have an edge; you're soft, because you're afraid to trip, stumble, heal and become a better man.

You guys all women these magical answers, but few of you actually want to do shit thats going to truly fix your issues. Get an EDGE. Go approaching women, go improv stand up at an open mic, go to the club alone and dance etc. What are you truly doing to improve your situation? Posting on a forum and trying to apply written responses to your life when you haven't put in the work of the people giving you the written responses is going to do little to nothing for you. If you want to improve, push yourself away from your "Casual" non intimate norms.

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The trouble is you don't understand seduction in general. Words do not make a girl to want you or to like you. Conversation is for getting and holding her attention on you. Seduction begins when you can impact on her emotional and instinctive levels. The point is you don't have to do it verbal, moreover, you have to talk with her on subjects that are interested to her. In a nutshell, if she doesn't want to talk about intimate/sexual but you do, you would lose her attention anyway. So, To sum it up, you ask us how to get results without working on yourself and just get to learn secret techniques, and to the best of our knowledge, there is no such things.

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I mean, why settle for just one? Why follow the same old rules? Why not make life better?
P.S. Eng is not my native language, so I think it would be enjoyable to thank you for fixing my mistakes.

Yeah, I don't interact with that many women. I have been out of my comfort zone, I travelled/backpacked alone through other countries many times and been around the world. Just happens that I am less comfortable approaching women, strangely perhaps.

Honesty lol.

Google the dicarlo escalation ladder. Then go practice it while you talk about random shit. Tada.

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You're doing good compared with many newbies around here. Your verbal communication skill is already on point so what you need to fix are your nonverbals. Dress well than the average dude just don't go over the top. Smell good. Fix your grooming (trim those nose hairs, trim your beard or moustache for out of place facial hair). Get a new set of clothes.

One technique that I do is I don't wear any underwear with my skinny jeans and wear a belt with a buckle that calls attention to my crotch area. I engage in small talk about the most mundane and trivial topics that girls enjoy. I then imagine all kinds of sexual thoughts while I'm conversing with girls and continue doing so as I get a hard on.

Most girls will notice the package in your pants and will start stealing covert glances at it. Continue the small talk like you didn't notice that the girl/s you're talking with are gazing at your crotch every now and then. Some girls will eject from the convo. This is normal. No worries. Some girls though will remain and start touching your arm, getting physically closer, rubbing their breast at your elbow and so on. Focus on these girls. Continue with the boring talk and escalate with the girls who are sexually escalating with you.

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Holy shit thats pretty fucking smart. I gotta do that lol

You better make sure you're well endowed to pull off that hilarious tactic.

American women dislike small dicks and if they see you have one, they'll bail.

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Isn't taste more important than size? I doubt that the entirety of the US female population all agree on that with you. In ancient Greece and the renaissance small dicks where actually favoured as those people were considered more intellectually talented while large cock peeps where seen as unreliable and driven by lust, so it is all highly subjective. Porn has largely contributed to the modern generalized preference of large cock sizes

They do. Trust me. Every single woman I have ever slept with loves to feel full.

Sure, if a woman has an emotional connection with a man, or he is extremely skilled with his tongue, they will overlook it. But right away, starting out, a woman will bail on a small dick. I know girls, who, during makeout sessions will "size up" a man through his jeans with their hand, and then cut things short if he's short.

No joke.

That's relevant, lol.
We agree there. And tits to waist ratios.

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Are you from the US redhavn?

The incidence of diabetes in the US is high. Add the skinny fat demographic and you'll get US government health care figures that indicate erectile dysfunction at varyng levels has become the norm among US males. My college buddy who's great with women relocated in the US. His height is a mere 5 foot three inches and his dick (we used to have dick measuring contests, who pees the farthest, etc. back in engineering college) is a mere 8.5 inches more or less. He is physically fit however and lives a healthy lifestyle. He nails a lot of women everywhere; including women in the US.

Based on the influential Masters and Johnson study on American sexuality, the average US male when erect (as measured) is around 5.2 inches more or less although verbal and written claims (the researchers found out) pegged the average at +6 inches when erect. Most US men can't get their 5 inch dicks up during most times and yet they're still getting girlfriends and getting married.

In effect, US women have an over abundance of limp male sexual appendages. Therefore, you don't need to have a 12-inch John Holmes cock. What you need is to get physically fit, eat healthy, and stay away from steroids. This way, you become the scarce dude who can easily get a hard on anytime.

Which would stimulate intense emotions in a woman, a limp dick or a hard cock?

If you're well endowed and physically fit, then you'll probably belong to the top 1% of the male population that women want. Unfortunately for US women, men who can easily get a hard on are scarce. I'm very confident that women (in the US or wherever) will always prefer a man who can easily have a hard on versus someone who cannot whether he has a 12-inch cock or not.

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Probably not a girl worth getting to know, so no loss there.