I met a HB9/10 the other night and after a chatting a while we were making out. Anyway we swap phones to enter numbers and she has a guy as her background. Strange, so I ask her and her response is that is her X and they broke up a week or two previously. I had had a few drinks by this time and thought nothing else of it. Now she definitiely seemed really into me, as I left to find my friends I saw a few groups of girls I had met previously around the club and she saw me with them, which worked perfectly. Five minutes later she walked straight back up to me tells me there is something she has to do and starts making out with me again there and then. She tells me to text her and leaves.

So the next day I decide to see if I can find her on facebook, as she is in my University I am able to see her profile and guess what... She does in fact have a boyfriend! Damn. I send her a message telling her I had a really good time and would like to see her again but respect the fact she has a boyfriend. I will keep you posted on the response, but any advice on what to do? She is hot and I would definitely like to see her again, but on the other hand Im not so sure if I am keen on aiming to split them up. Then again, if she is out getting with other guys, surely her relationship can't be perfect?!...

ok, well if the boyfriend doesnt bother you, then you should try to get a day-2. I wouldnt try to brake them up unless you are looking for an LRT, otherwise there is no point in pourposely tryng to make them brake up. The fact that she already made out with you means she WILL cheat on her boyfriend wether it be with you or with some other dude, so might as well be with you right? Wether you want an LRT is upto you, but I would atl east try to get an f-close. You should use a bf-destroyer when talking to her and definatly try to see her again. I hope that was a bit helpful.

-Zeus

Thanks Zeus, interestingly it turns out from her reply - she has split up but is finding it hard to move on etc.

Funny thing is she is probably going through exactly what happened to me recently with my X as both relationships split up by the girls moving away to university. Can I use this in my favor and tell I understand as I can relate? And how is best to give my opinion on the situation? Or should I keep quiet about my X?

Some good bf destroyers to help her move on would be handy if anyone knows any? What kind of things will it be best to say to get her to forget about him and start thinking more about me! I am confused as to what area of the PUA rules I am at - attraction/comfort etc?!