Hi all,

Wanted some insight on a situation that just arrived today. While checking my FB messages I got a request from a girl that looked familiar. I Messaged her to ask who she was and If I might know her. Here's how the exchange went down...

Do I know you from somewhere? You friend requested me.

Do you live in Brooklyn?
Once upon a time I did.

Her: Ok then we went on a few dates, you cooked me dinner, we had sex and never saw you again
Her: You came up on my thread I looked at the photo and I must have clicked

Me: Oh wow! That was nearly 4 years ago. I moved to California for a while and since came back to NY.

Her: Cool.. that's what you wanted to do.

Her: Ya I thought it was super random but Idk maybe it's new app or tech on new iPhones can tack stuff

Her: Anyway I hope all is well

Me: Yea for sure.
Me: Wanna hang sometime?

Her: LOL

Me: lol

Her: Yes we can

Me: Cool, what's your schedule for Thursday evening

Her: I have plans this Thursday

Me: Ok, When are you free next

Her: Sunday or Tuesday

Her: Does either day work for you?
7:46PM

Me: Let's shoot for Sunday, Does 7pm work for you

Her: Sounds good.


So this was pretty interesting I thought. Initially met her on OkCupid 3 years ago and we kicked it off nice. Went on a few dates and had sex. At the time I was seeing her I moved away to California for a while... I didn't see her at all nor have I spoke to her after we had sex until today.

My question is how do you go about rekindling with old chicks? I never have done this with someone I actually slept with so It's a bit wild. I guess it can be a catch up thing and then create an experience for sex to likely happen again. Only this time I don't have a place lol. All help appreciated.

You are over thinking this x2.

She contacted you (sideways) because your picture caused this slight itch in her vagina she'd like to scratch with your penis. IF you prove yourself worthy of the task.

Sunday should be in the evening, after dinner hour, at a quiet pub NEAR your shag shed.

Have drinks on hand, suggest stopping by to see your new goldfish. Tell her "Don't get any ideas either, I can’t have sex with you tonight, I have an early morning tomorrow.”

Then have sex with her.

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It's a bit wild? Lol

Its totally wild bro..

You guys went on dates in the past and you guys had sex correct? Now you guys are going to go on another date... So what do you think happens next? The same exact thing that you did last time you can do this time just like everyone else that has ever gone on a date. Don't tell me you just came here to "look cool" with your new situation. Nothing about any of this would suggest you need help or are genuinely looking for it.

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C'Mon dude! I wouldn't come on here to brag about a chick man. I generally asked for some insight on the situation that's all. I also have an issue with my logistics as I don't live in the city anymore. I'm in the suburbs so I would need to drive in the city to meet with her. Let me ask you now... How would you go about logistics for making a pull. Would you just car it? After watching some RSD content online It's crucial to have logistics together and that for me has been an issue with women over the past year since I lost my place and currently roomates with my sister so she cannot come here.

Thanks for the insight! I scheduled a meet with her on Sunday at 7pm. My issue is logistics which is mentioned in my last post. I since lost my apartment and cannot bring her where I currently am located. However I drive a car and have cargo space so I can always drive us to a lookout and make things happen. Any tips on logistics for the pull. I personally am not putting out $200 for a hotel with this girl that night.

Ask her if she's an adventurous girl. Then, after a while, escalate.

Update:

Hey everyone. I thought I'd circle back and give an update on how things turned out for the evening when we met. It turned out great! We met at 7pm and she arrived before me. I felt a bit bad showing up 5 min late but nothing to worry about. We started off with drinks. We had a couple of rounds, I love me an old fashioned so I drank that. We then went to go grab food but first we walked to my car because I wanted to park closer to where I was planing to stay for the evening. Yes! I planned out a hotel stay before I met up with here. I did this through short research via AirBnb and Hotel tonight.

While eating dinner we ended up talking about movies and I brought up horror films (My favorite genre) and discussed The Walking Dead a bit. I said we should go back to my hotel where I'm staying to watch a film and chill. She was a bit weird about it at first and she said... oh ok idk. I then said, no pressure but it would be cool if you came to hangout for a bit. After dinner was finished she said I'll stop by for a little bit. I said cool, let's get out of here. It was getting late anyway.

At the room, I ended up with just playing some chill music on Soundcloud while still talking. She was at the edge of my bed and I was on a foot stool right next to it. I then started touching her leg which led to another resulting in us having sex.

The Issues:

I couldn't get hard. I don't know why but I really couldn't get my ish hard man. It was the weirdest thing. I think it was because she didn't do much foreplay at all. I did most of it and she just laid there. This was the same issue I had with her at my old apartment. I couldn't get a boner. What I thought was funny and F'ed us was that she said, "I don't think your D!@k likes me". That was totally awkward. I can't really remember exactly what I said besides I can use a little help here. That's when she started jerking me off which then got it up which let to sex.

I do wish she put in a bit more effort with the foreplay as I did. I went down on her and everything. I love sucking pu$$y so it was all good. Plus that sh!t was fresh. After we finished we laid there and she ended up crashing till the morning. In the morning we made more plans to hangout for the weekend (Saturday). We had coffee and she left with me. I had a meeting that morning so I drove to the building where the meeting was, grabbed my bag and walked her to her Uber. I then took off and went to my meeting.

I told her I will circle back with her later in the week to let her know the logistics for Saturday. I asked if she was adventurous. She said yes why. I told her I've been meaning to hike one of my favorite trails this Saturday and she should come. She said yes she would.

Question, do you think I should be texting her throughout the week or just hold off till when I contact her about meeting up Saturday with logistics setup? I don't want to over do anything and to be honest don't feel like going back and fourth with texting. All help appreciated.