Part of my problem with PUA theory is I hate the idea of repeating the same lines over and over.

I always try to make my conversations genuine and spontaneous. Problem is, my sense of "integrity" usually makes my conversations unpredictable and sometimes awkward. I get weird when I'm struggling to think of what to say..

Maybe it's a good idea to collect some "material."

I feel like women are wise to you using the same lines over and over, especially if you're borrowing somebody else's material ... they can see through it ...

Are they wise to it? Can they see through it?

If so, do they just not care, because it's cute anyways?

I'm not a canned guy, but i've seen many guys do it well. In theory, it should and will sound unnatural the first dozen times you use canned material, but you're supposed to keep doing it until it feels natural, and the purpose is for you to learn from the structure and do your own thing. So if you arent a good storyteller, you use canned story, OVER and OVER and OVER and through trial and error you'll learn timing and delivery, which you can then use for your own stories. Routines, have always been TRAINING wheels...something you can practice to learn DELIVERY. For eg, years back I had problem with going for the kiss. So I used a routine. After doing it over and over, I kissed so many girls, it was no problem to go for the kiss without a routine. Were some girls weirded out after the routine? Sure...but the point is I got used to doing something I couldnt do naturally.

Whats missed nowadays, is getting better means you lose ALOT of women. Whether you use a canned line, or freestyle, what matters is you practice, OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER

I engage the girl on a superfluous topic to see if there's chemistry (don't blow out by saying "u stop i like u i thought u were cute let me guess ur an artist",,,, that is SOCIALLY INEPT ... there's no misdirection .... there's no INTRIGUE for the girl to sink her teeth into) then find out about her, tell her about me, and close.

If you're a musician or an artist this game will be easier for you. It's about improvisation within an overall closing template you set for yourself.

The lines themselves doesn't matter, it's mostly about HOW you say them. The lines that work for people are the ones they can "make their own", meaning it's something that you, as a person, would say - it suits your personality.

If you are a shy guy and then tell the girl "get out of here, your p*ssy doesn't mean sh*t for me, I just fcked a 19 y/o girl in the bathroom".. you BET it will get you blow out and look super awkward.

If you want to use lines then chose the ones that make you laugh, you find fun etc. Make them YOURS!

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lines and routines are meant to be used as ice breakers,to be fun and entertaining, once you set the hook....lead the conversation where you want it.

Crash and burn on purpose or do what feels natural to you.

the point is to be able to have a conversation and avoid the whole "Blank Slate" situation that we have all ran into.

Drop the lines and get standards.

When you're only approaching a girl because you find her physically attractive your mind will have trouble coming up with anything to say because your motivation to approach had nothing to do with your thoughts, it was pure visually based.

When you actually know what kind of "Attractive" woman you're looking for because you have standards; you'll find it much more easier to engage in conversation, because you won't be boggling your mind with what to say to impress them or contact with them; you'll be approaching and evaluating them based on the list of standards that you require from a woman for you to take interest in them. It become about YOU, what YOU'RE looking for, and if THEY fit into your life. Its no longer about them and you waiting on them to approve of whatever it is you're saying to them. You become self approved, you become the evaluator, the one hosting the interview and not the one seeing if you're going to get hired for the job. Most guys approach woman as if the woman is the boss and they're trying to get hired for a position that there is no space for. When you have requirements beyond the surface you become the boss thats giving them an opportunity to be invited into your world.

So this isn't a technical issue. Its more of a mental thing. You have no idea why you're approaching women other than the fact that you get erect and you think they're attractive. That approach can work and does work here and there, but its hit or miss. You're playing a numbers game. And its their game. You're not there to impress, you're there to inspect.

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Be a mastery student, not an outcome student. If you want to use structured material, fine, but you have to practice with the goal of being comfortable using it. Structure isn't the same as a script. The girl can go off script and if you have no ability to bs on the fly it will hurt. But with structure, you can understand going from A to B to C with a general idea of what to do.

So screw "genuine." Learn to bullshit.

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