I recently posted a thread in sticking points about this new girl I met up with this week (but known for awhile) and only managed to kiss her, and this same week she is going out of town for family.

Advice was basically to ask her out one more time and seal the deal, before she left.

So I did that, and went totally AFC.
Heres what I did, I asked specific time and place X to meet up, and she said too busy getting ready for the weekend, I replied asking if the next day would be easier, and she replied she is having dinner with her best friend over watching her pet fish and turtle. I replied saying something like well ill be at place X if you want to come meetup and I will watch fish and turtle for free blah blah.

She didnt reply back. Not even yes or no about watching her pet fish and stuff jesus, girls can be cold sometimes (she even game me a key to her house since we were good friends awhile back). But I guess it was my fault for sending a stupid message.

Anyways, so you guys think best to move on learn from mistakes..or message when she gets back and try and ask her out again? I feel if I message her back when she comes back in town it will be a negative vibe and will make it worse..or no?.
Just so strange I know she had an awesome time when we went out..and a few texts later its like she forgot it all.
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Don't keep texting back with alternate times. You're a busy guy with shit to get done, and you're not there to entertain her. Read RC's texting guide:

closing-and-day/topic189023.html

Yea its one of the best guides out there, just reread it.. still getting the hang of it. I like calling better, but girls like to text so im always working on that.

Anyways in the guide it even says "A’right, so say she didn’t offer that reschedule, what do you do? Either immediately propose a new date and time, or ask her for a reschedule day so you can see if that works for you."

she didnt offer a reschedule but I did reschedule immediately she just didnt want to i guess wanted to hang with her friend.

So yea I my main problem right now is that if wondering if i should text her later next week or something when she is back asking about her trip or just something random i saw just sending some light texting, before setting up another date

or let her initiate... idk what to do. And as you said not to entertain her, but i dont think i can setup another date without some light texting back and forth first. Maybe though.

If I dont text her, i feel like she wont ever text me again anyways for long time. Sure we will cross paths again, just not sure how long that be.

Thing is the girls Im hooking up with now, I dont share the same connection as I do with her.

Don't text her again.

Don't double text.

Wait till she contacts you. In fact, go talk to some other girls in the mean time.

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Jon Millar||Dating Guru

Thanks, thats how I think its going to have to go.

Anyone else agree to this? Seems like the only option left.

Stop being so gamey. Just tell the girl you fucking like her. Holy shit, that was frustrating to read.