I will apologize in advance, I am horrible at writing field reports and such. Ok, so I went to a local hair cuttery type of place in the mall i work in a month or so ago. The girl who cut my hair was attractive (8ish) so we talked as usual, and I found out we actually had alot in common. I went back again last Friday got my hair cut again, and continued our conversation. She gave me several IOIs, like i busted her stones and she gave a playful backhand to my chest, Mentioned how she just went camping with her friend her boyfriend and "just herself", she laughed at all my jokes even the unfunny ones. Just general things like that. Well we talked about how she doesnt like coffee and i mentioned there is this new caramel apple spice thing at starbucks she mentioned how she loves apple cider. So as im leaving i invite her out for coffee the next day (saturday) now im working til 4 and she was starting work at 4. So i wasnt sure when to set the exact time because i wasnt sure how her break type thing works... so anyway i invite her out and she says yes, but then stupidly i gave her my number and told her to give me a call when she gets a break and we would go for the coffee.. i guess i assumed we had enough attraction that she would chase me... i dunno im a dumb ass... well anyway next day came no call, no show. So now where do i go from here? Should i go visit her at work (its in the same mall as my store) and what should i say? I usually dont do this stupid shit... and its very frustrating cause she genuinely had a cool personality. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

really no advice at all? nothing from anyone?

You did pretty well I guess! Next time, let her give you HER number

You can go back to her work. Just not right now. Go back in one week and bust her balls on not calling. Ask for her number, tell her that you're really busy. You don't want any girl wasting your time at the moment. DHV some more, not the "casual talk". Don't act like a wuss and you'll be alright!

Good luck!

Thanks for the word... i was wondering whether i should go back or not with the intentions of talking to her. I guess im just nervous il go back and she will have a customer or something...

I agree with okiokdan...

Man u still havent screwed up totally... so dont worry... since u guys work at the same place when u get off after couple dayz from now....just stop by and neg her and as okiokdan said bust her balls for not callin and pretend that u are busy dont talk much... and eject... that should get her wondering and thinkin.... just dont forget to neg her... when u meet up with her next time... tellin her how she was rude and shit... if u kno wat i mean...

hope it works out good for you, but still suggest u would ask some pros... lol... i myself am a newbie...haha but this stuff has worked for me... so yea...keep it up bro... luck...

guess that mardy has some good point doh, i should not neg her with the line "it's rude of you". it will come over as if u are an real demanding person....

ofcourse, you need to let here know that u aint a dork who's waiting with passion on there call!

GL

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Ofcourse... as samcroom said... would not suggest you tellin her straight off the bet that she was rude...by not callin you... but here is what I was thinkin...

Next time u see her... when u get off your work and stop by at her place... and if she has a customer... dont worry... here is something that I had in mind...

You: Hey, Whats up?
Her: nm...blah blah blah
You: Looks like you have some work to do but not as much as me tho...haha.. (or somethin like that which shows how busy u were, be cocky funny and then...) I gotta tell u somethin(and then may be get into a short DHV story which includes how u were busy the last whole week and since u told us that she was breifing you on how she went campin with her boyfriend... you might wanna add in somethin about u hookin up with a chick or meetin up with her this weekend... ... that should hopefully trigger one of the jealousy switches....)
Her: (Whatever she says...)
You: Just do a friendly eject... be like Oh I gotta go meet up with some frnds and look at ur watch and pretend as if u were already late... and bounce... lol...

Make sure u never want to have her feel like she is the prize for u... make her feel like u r the prize not her... and she has to work it out of u....

I guess that should get the ball rolling for u... c how it goes... certainly not a pro here... but tryin to tell u somethin that has worked for me... hope this helps.... you might need to rephrase the words tho... aight... luck man...

Hopin that some better heads would correct me... here...

Sux she mentioned the bf though. If only she conviently left that out. Not like that would matter though.

Agree with you starz... but see that is y I told him to mention about him hookin up with a chick while he was DHV'ing himself... and even if she is slightly interested... then it is possible that him tellin her about hookin up with some other girl over weekend can trigger some jealousy switches... in which case she might start showing interest...

and as far as boy friend goes... what are boy friend destroyers for??? lmaooo

And above that if she had a boy friend and cared that much, then wat was she doin out havin a coffee with our buddy here in the first place???

There is always a room.... keep up a good game man and play it out cool...

Just remeber wat Thomas Edison said "I have not failed 1000 times in making a light bulb... I know of 1000 ways that a light bulb will not work..."

Keep us Updated and luck man!!!

Don't forget guys, just because a girl says she has a boyfriend, doesn't mean that she does. And even if she does, that doesn't mean she won't cheat on him. demonstrating higher S & R value than the boyfriend will always win a girl over. Bust on her and tell her that she's losing you. Woman can't stand that thought. It will raise your value and make her chase you.

ahh yes BF destroyer BHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAH. sorry...

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completly what scarletspider says!

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She actually didnt mention a BF, she mentioned she went camping with her friend, and her FRIEND's BF. and just her. She never said anything about her having a BF.

As an update. I went to talk to the girl, she had some kinda horrible week excuses, one being that her phone was shut off.

So we then planned to meet up the next day (last sunday) i didnt ask for her number though as she had just mentioned that it was shut off, i thought it would seem like i didnt listen at all.

So then sunday rolls around and she calls me to tell me that she has a color coming in 15 minutes before we our scheduled meeting time, so she would not be able to make it. She then suggests another time? I then tell her im having alittle get together at my house. and invite her, she says she will call me that monday. Monday goes by and no call. What am i to do now? Im thinking about just putting myself out there by saying something like "Hey look, you seem like an interesting and fun girl, and i would like to get to know you some more. If your interested, then cool, if not its no big deal." Do you think this would be ok? or should i just drop it?

I would drop her. She will just keep blowing you off, but hey, if you enjoy that then be my guest. Next time she calls, don't answer. Call her later to see what was up.

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Yea i figured it was time to add her to the flake file... oh well... il still goto her for my hair cut hah.