This was months ago, but I'm trying to examine it more and figure out exactly what occured, so that I can learn from it. I know I fucked up and I was a total AFC but I just want to know exactly why.

Was on a dating site. Sent a girl a message saying she was very cute. She said thanks. Then I asked for her number. She asked me for mine instead. I gave it to her. Then a week later she texts me. We just bullshit back and forth. We agreed that we lived kind of far apart (1.5 hour drive) but she said it wasn't too far and she'd be willing to meet. We exchange more pics and call each other cute. Then I call it a night.

After 3 days, I send her a text asking what she's up to. She responds like she's talking to a co-worker from her job. Like she mistook me for someone else. Refers to me as Lisa. Asks if I'm gonna be at work tomorrow. I replied saying I'm not Lisa. No response.
In 3 more days, I call her. No answer. Then she tries to call me back 30 minutes later. I don't pick up. She sends me a text asking who is this? I reminded her in an angry way who I was. She said she was sorry for that. I asked her how could she have not recognized me from those previous texts? She said she always deletes texts on her phone. I thought at the time, she was talking to several different guys at the same time and forgot about me. So I asked her how many guys was she talking to. She got real defensive and said she wasn't a slut and she just got out of a bad relationship. I didn't really like that. So I sent her a nasty picture and that was it.

Why did she talk to me like I was "Lisa" ?? And then lied about always deleting texts? I assume she lied about the bad relationship as well?

Your actions conveyed neediness, emotional wildness, and desperation, *especially* considering you've had no physical contact with this woman.

I'm not saying that's true, but that's how you came off.

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Whats with the questions? If she didn't know it was you make a joke about how baffled you are that she could forget such an amazing guy and carry on your conversation. Why is it any of your business how many guys she is talking to? It's a dating site, of course she will be talking to a few guys, accept that. Asking questions like that is just borderline creepy.

To me it just sounds like she wasn't very interested but was being polite, nobody that is genuinely interested will take a week to text. Even going 3 days after chatting and swapping pics without a word is kinda weird in my experience. Most girls I talk to will message daily or every other day... very rarely up to 3. You need to move quick with online dating, it's certainly not a place to take your time.

It sounds like you handled this really immaturely and I'm not surprised she told you to fuck off lol.

I have to ask though, what was the "nasty pic"?

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So I weren't going to bother posting this lol.... but in my last post here i asked what the nasty picture was. OP pm'd me saying "I took a shit and sent it to her. HAHA aint i bad??"

I figure that OP is obviously ashamed by this or he would have replied publically so a bit of shaming might do him some good

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So I WASN'T going to bother posting this lol.... but ColaGuy pm'd me saying "Can I deepthroat your dick please?". I told him he had a narrow esophagus so probably not.

This is all secondary, meaningless bullshit compared to the fact that the OP actually thought that this girl was worth pursuing. He could have been cavalier, supremo-alpha or groveling, third-tier-beta and it would be irrelevant. That female was damaged goods. Full of shit, playing games and generally BSing around. That's an automatic sign to hit the eject button, for any mega-AFC or head-honcho PUA alike.

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