this happened a few times lately: I get a girl's number in daygame after a 10 minute interaction. we text back and forth a few times (not much). a few days later I text her asking if she wants to meet the next day. And she says she can't because ....... (with no offer to do it another time). Should I give up and count these women as flakes or should I keep perusing. And If so, how?

Go for the meetup close quickly. You want to meet up so state this point early in your texting. You're a busy man, you don't have time to send pics and fuck around over text.

Notice how they were down to chat but then flaked. Realize that they are down in some way or fashion. You have to figure out the exact style that will work for you as a person that melds in with the energy you conveyed when you initially got their #.

If you aren't opening situationally, she is probably assuming you do this kind of thing a lot which could severely reduce the chance she will be down for a meeting.

You're not establishing connection. If you're running into the same problem with different girls its not them thats the problem, its you.

Start calling. Call them the same night you get the number.

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See im not a big fan of this call on the same night business reasons being, unless it was atlas 8/10+ solid conversation that girl will have been distracted by other guys. Girls are always looking for the next fix or rather the best fix. We as guys i find will like a girl over an extended period of time, One girl we may like today we still may feel some sort of attraction 5 years down the line, but the for the most part girls work on what i like think as a live update of emotional responses.

Bang there you go

Texting is like leaving her a message after the beep. She's in control of the interaction and there are no emotions involved in texts.

Calling on the other hand has a few perks, she gets that "OMG, he's calling me, what should I say?" feel. She wont have time to think of excuses, most men text so you'll stand out and hence, you are coming off as a guy who's in a way threatening (which will excite her mind), who doesn't have time for texting because his life is so busy, and it shows you're not intimidatedby her in any way.


Online dating, texts, etc. Only made men more pussified, I have so many buddies who proposed a relationship with the girl they liked over texts, dozen of them who broke up with their gf's over texts and so on, the list is endless. By being bold (call her) you stand out, you're intimidating, you're a man.

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