| Having progressed to the point with past two GF that was able to k-close (and make-out-close) both on 1st dates, power through 4 dates fairly effortlessly, generating interest, having lots of kino, kissing, etc. Both of these last 2 have resisted sex, although last one allowed oral. Do not believe my S game is awful, last one for example said very clearly she WANTS to have sex with me but wants to take it a bit slower. Fine. I back up and relax - not after sex as an end-goal, looking for a quality woman and realize some level of resistance like this could be considered a sign that I'm viewed as possible LTR material.
However...
With both of these girls, after about date 4 or 5, seeing some major distancing, excuse making, etc. Uncertain if I've done something coincidentally to DLV on dates 4 or 5, or if this is a shit-test reaction on their part. It's not like they're posing a question to test me - they literally have gone from 1,000 degree buying temp to 45 degrees - or so it seems. First of these two, I eventally stopped talking to her, sent her a "good-bye" email that she didn't reply to for about 3 weeks, then did reply along the lines of "yeah, I don't know what happened - you're such a cutie. blah blah."
This appears to be something I need to fix. I don't see myself as acting radically different around this timeframe. Thoughts? Anyone been through a similar situation and what helped you?
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