Hi guys,

I've been reading in the forum some openers, and I've got a question... do you just go and say it?! Isn't it weird?

I mean, normally people don't just go and say "hey, I need a female opinion"

Why would you do that if you are not interested in picking one of them up? Would anyone really ask to a group of people for female advice??

Thanks guys

It's maybe that its uncongruent with my personality?

AB

It doesn't feel wierd to approach and open like that. I don't know why it would seem wierd? You just have to approach and open in such a way that you don't show any interest, and then they won't think you're trying to pick them up, so they'll lower their defences.

If its not congruent with your personality, then practice until it becomes a part of it.

I understand what you are saying, its seems weird for me too to open like that. Maybe its because we are both from Europe and the people in this forum are mostly from US where the culture is very different

I think it all comes down to the approach. If you walk in by yourself, check out your target and then walk up and ask for a female opinion, then both you and the targets are going to think of it as a pick up and it will throw you off.

However, if you have a wing and then just casually ask the nearest group of females their options on something, it seems more naturally to you and them. Of course, make sure you position yourself next to the group of hot girls so they are the ones you ask.

Make sure u have to make as little movement as possible. If you have to walk across the room, then it'll be a obvious pick up. Just turn your head to the group next to you and blurt out, 'me and my friend were talking and we need a female opinion'…

I think your problem is you don’t believe it will work and if you come across like that, then it wont. Believe in yourself and the question. Women love to chat about rubbish that doesn't matter. Its what they do.

I'll give you a example: I live in London and one night I was wearing a flowery shirt which I always call my gay shirt. Me and my wing was hanging round and I told him to go open a group. He just said 'Can I get a female opinion on my mates shirt. I think it looks really gay but he wont stop wearing it everytime we go out'.

A few of the girls agreed it looked gay and a few said it looked nice.

Then I approached and pulled out a few cocky funny lines about the shirt and 10 mins later, I had 2 numbers and ended up going home with one of them. So it works in London.

hahahahaha

Ok, thanks guys.

I've opened a few sets (before knowing about PUA stuff) and I can see that people respond, but sometimes I think "won't I bother them?"

LOL ! I have a fantastic flowery yellow shirt, and I though about the same opener! Cause a friend says many times that I look gay with it, but I love this shirt x)

AB