| The busy girl, forget about her. She's found another guy she's more interested in.
The girl you have a friend in common with, don't mention the friend right up front, it never works.
Comment on something in her picture. Do not tell her she's beautiful, or has beautiful eyes, or any of that. Comment on something specific you notice about her. If you want, you can be a little cocky/funny about it. "So, I swiped right on you because you have straight hair. . . Is that shallow of me?"
Get a response. Friend zone her in your mind. Tease her VERY lightly. Secure a number very quickly by saying "We should text ##########"
When she texts, continue the conversation as if you never dropped off. THEN you can ask about your mutual friend, talking about how great he is. Make your sexual intentions known right off the bat. I like to do this by starting off with the line:
"Why are you single?"
subtext: 'Is there something wrong with you? Qualify yourself to me.'
She will respond. She'll most likely say "You?"
Subtext: 'your turn!'
My typical response is that I was married 8 years, got cheated on, been single a year, and that "I'm not most girls cup of tea anyway."
Subtext: 'I'm a catch or else I wouldn't have been married for so long. I won't be on the market much longer. I'm not very trusting of you. And here's some bait to ask me more questions.'
She will ask why you aren't most girls cup of tea
subtext: 'What? You aren't trying to impress me? Do Tell, Manly Man.'
Or she'll say something about how she's not most guys cup of tea.
subtext: 'I have value, too! Try a little more I like your bait'
Once I hook them on that, I go ten steps forward:
"I'm kind of a man whore honestly. I'm very up front. Seems like a lot of girls almost prefer getting lied to."
subtext: 'I'm a fuck machine and I'm willing to fuck you, even though I didn't tell you I want to fuck you.'
I'm not going to go any further than this. I will tell you the three basic responses, all of which open the conversation to what you are both looking for.
She is going to either be VERY impressed by how forward you are. She's going to poke and prod about you being a man whore. This is your opportunity to appeal to her. I personally like to go on about how I love to fuck. I say things like "I prefer chill and then shower and then cuddle and then netflix, haha!" Then I'll go on about friends in the past, always hinting that I have pussy on call. I also like to go on about how picky I am, without saying I'm picky. "Yeah I think a lot of guys latch on to one girl and like put her on a pedestal or some shit because all they have is one girl to talk to. I don't have that problem. So I get to be more picky about who I fuck. I'm just lucky I guess." They eat that shit up. You will most likely fuck these girls.
Or she is going to be almost indifferent. The last comment I got to my "I'm a man whore" line was: "It's so stupid that people don't like it when someone is honest with them and then they get all butt hurt about whatever it was". I texted back an appropriate response like I was talking to a guy friend. Her thing here is that she's interested in my man whoredom, or else she wouldn't be still talking in a positive tone, but she doesn't want to feel like a slut, so she wants to get to know me a little more. I just stuck to the conversation through a few texts, then ended with "Glad you agree, cutie!" and then sent a selfie. She sent a selfie back. Talked for a while. She invited me for Margaritas. I didn't want to go. She's interested, but not in the sack.
The last response you'll get is not going to be a condemnation of you being a man whore, but instead she's going to tell you every reason under the sun why she doesn't fuck on the first date, why she wants to wait for a relationship, why she doesn't want anything to do with sex. These girls, I just tell them I understand other people's sexual choices, I educate them a little more about myself, usually by going FULL BLOWN into how I'm just a sexual fucking animal. How I need it like air. How I still respect women but I just love to fuck. Usually they just disagree very kindly and I kindly disagree with them, and we stop texting eventually. But evvverrryyyy once in a while, one of these girls bites, and sees me as a sexual adventure she's never had.
So there's that...
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