First the good part:

Last weekend I was at a house party with my fellow students, and I got to chat with one of the girls from my class. I told her that I just became single and she immediately answered that now I will probably have a great time because I am such a handsome and intelligent guy while touching me on my arm (not as in I am sorry for you, but in a sexual way). Because I was drunk + a bit fucked after my break-up I kind of left her alone and chatted with different people the rest of that house party not initiating anymore with her.

Bad part:

We all went to a place in the city and after being there some time I got sick of the place and wanted to leave. She came up to me again and said "No please stay some longer", but I was as mentioned earlier in a weird place, so I just said nah and gave her a kiss goodbye and then said that we should do something together next evening... It was pretty obvious what I meant.

On my way home i realized in my drunken state that i should diffenitely write to her so I wrote "Write If you wanna have fun tomorrow evening, see ya "

In retrospect i first of all think that i escalated to quickly considering that she has a reputation in the class to look out for, and the message just came across as needy and kind of weird. She saw the message next day, but didn't reply!


Yeah so i basically fucked up, because I was in the "I don't care state" and escalated to quickly...


Question:

So tonight I am going to this dinner party with people from my class and she will be there as well. I still think I have a shot if i play it correctly, but to be honest I am a bit unsure about how to deal with it... First of all should I just pretend that nothing has happened (don't mention anything about the text) and just being casual about it? Should i furthermore maybe ignore her or just talk to her as nothing has happened?

So basically I am a bit sure of how to get her hooked in regards to what has happened.

You probably already went to the event but I would have acted as though the non reply to your text was no big deal which it wasn't and proceeded to assume continued attraction. Let us know how it went.

I did that and just continued as nothing had happened After some hours she mentioned the text and I replied that I ment it and that I was tired of all that normal fluffy talk you have to go through and that I just wanted to have fun... Anyway she gave me a lot of IOI's and it went very well, until she got her jacket with her house keys stolen, which kind of killed the mood.

I can't catch a break ^^

Thats it.

Approaching a stranger and talking to them as if you've known them your entire life is a lot more effective than talking to them like they're a stranger. And in the same light, approaching as if "nothing happened" and everything is all good is a lot more effective then approaching like " You ignored me.. why?"

People just want to have fun man. If you can approach with a fun vibe, no ones going to deny themselves a good time.

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