I'm thinking of nexting although she is a HB8.

She approached me in front of her guy friends and told them to leave her alone while she talks to me, I spoke to her for just over 5 minutes and couldn't spend much time as I was working. She approached me just before she left and asked me if I wanted to take her number. I asked her what her background was when taking her number and smiled but I didn't say to much as I didn't want people at working watching. I text her the number day on Saturday and she told me it was nice to meet me.

I waited till Monday to call her and she told me when she picked up the phone she was working so I had to text. I negged her in text as she is a short girl and looks young and told her buy the time she I finish work she will be waking up eating weetos. She laughed and text back. I waited till Wednesday to try and call her and she text me back saying she was working all might. I have weak text game so just told her I would call her tommorow before work. I called Thursday and no answer or callback. I would prefer to at least get to know her more on the phone before texting her but now I'm thinking I should maybe text her once more and see what happens but I don't know what to say.

Her phone number is a way to get the two of you to meet up again. It doesn't matter how you do it.. Call or text. Get her to meet up.

If she was only replying to your fucking emails, then I would suggest emailing her back in order to set something up.

You don't have to get to know her over text OR over the phone either. I don't know where you're getting that idea from.

I think because she was the one who approached me and now she hasn't even intiated once in a week makes it seem more awkward. It's like I'm sitting in the corner talking to myself.

You're making this way too fucking hard on yourself.

"Let's get a drink."

Done and done.

Meandering "text game" is for orbiters and AFCs.

You're a man in demand.

Get to know her in person.

She lost interest pretty quick.

I didn't text her till today after about 4 days and got no response. Story of my life.

I know what you mean man.

I don't text girls at all until I at least have a 20-30 mins phone conversation with them to get a genuine feel for their character. Unless of course I had that time to talk to them and establish that connection in person.

This one sounds like it could be a lost cause though. You can text her if you want, but I think the better move would be to just let her come to you if she does or to let this one slip on away.

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Yeah, she was comfortable texting (and busy) and you pushed her into calls.

Why?

Because some old school 50 year old players on forums say "grow a pair and call her"? Yeah, they're calling fat, ugly 50 year old women that did this back in the day, not hot 20-somethings.

A phone call is a higher level of investment to younger women who grew up on Facebook. When you call and she texts (and especially if she says she's busy) you look more invested.

She smelled it and ran.

Don't contact her again. If she reaches out via text, TEXT her back for a meet:

"Hey, let's grab a drink at Bar Z."

"Hey, I'm watching a blu ray at my place tonight. You're welcome to swing by."

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I actually thought calling was more "manly"

I prefer it anyone to at least find out what kind of person they are, otherwise my initial texts end up being "hey how are you?" "hey what are u up 2?

I believe they are more manly. But most younger women dislike them early on. Why start off with a disadvantage?

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Yeah I believe girls these days would rather text at first, and then call once they are a bit more comfortable with you. And I think in this case you just waited too long to text her and you lost the momentum you had. The point of text game is mainly to keep your momentum and arrange to meet again, and if you wait too long you'll begin to fade from her mind.

At the end of the day though she's the one who approached you and pretty much number-closed you so it's her loss, take it as a learning experience and don't waste any more energy worrying about it.