What can I do to simply meet girls for social contact?



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 35 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 8:31 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 01, 2016 7:45 pm
Posts: 6
Hello, I am new here, a member of this site linked me and told me to ask the people on here for help, since you had once helped him.


I am not asking how to get laid, or how to escalate or how to talk to girls.

I am simply asking how to meet girls, preferably jailbaits.

I am 19 years old, have been rated 7+ on sluthate/lookism and drive an AMG, I take care of myself, I dress well, groom, smell good etc..., my location is eastern europe. I am not saying this to brag since some have said, but to draw you a picture of what you're dealing with, and to make you understand that I pass the looks/money threshold for girls. I am not weird, I am not awkward, I do not have any anxiety or any of that. I just am in bad social situation. I am of course a virgin, never kissed a girl, never held hands etc...

I went to men school which fucked my social circumstances very hard in terms of girls. I have no trouble being social or making friends and talking to people, my trouble is that I don't have ANY interaction with girls.

Simply I want advice on things I can do to meet girls, that is all I need, I can do the rest myself I just need to meet girls I can talk to.

Please don't tell me some bullshit about milfs (i dont want girl older than me) or getting a hooker, I don't care about the sex, just the validation, I just want to be normal and get a 16-17 yo (14 is aoc) girlfriend that likes me.

I just want to make some female friends that I can hand out with/talk to. Give me advice for that, if you start talking some shit I will ignore your post. Be respectful please.


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 8:46 pm 
Offline
King Among Mortals
User avatar

Joined: Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:36 pm
Posts: 7592
Location: United States
Step #1. See girl, walk over, say "Hi my name is Ineed." Repeat as often as possible.

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 8:50 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 01, 2016 7:45 pm
Posts: 6
Quote:
Step #1. See girl, walk over, say "Hi my name is Ineed." Repeat as often as possible.
Do you mean cold approaching?

Why can't I just meet girls like normal guys meet them instead of harassing strangers like a desperate thirsty dog?


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:02 pm 
Offline
King Among Mortals
User avatar

Joined: Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:36 pm
Posts: 7592
Location: United States
Quote:
Quote:
Step #1. See girl, walk over, say "Hi my name is Ineed." Repeat as often as possible.
Do you mean cold approaching?

Why can't I just meet girls like normal guys meet them instead of harassing strangers like a desperate thirsty dog?
Saying "Hi" is a sign of desperation in your eyes? It works a fuck of lot better than AXE body spray.

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:07 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 01, 2016 7:45 pm
Posts: 6
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
Step #1. See girl, walk over, say "Hi my name is Ineed." Repeat as often as possible.
Do you mean cold approaching?

Why can't I just meet girls like normal guys meet them instead of harassing strangers like a desperate thirsty dog?
Saying "Hi" is a sign of desperation in your eyes? It works a fuck of lot better than AXE body spray.
Well yes, just think. What normal dude just walks on the street and harasses stranger females like that? I just want to make female friends to hang out with no be casanova whatever.


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:14 pm 
Offline
The Grand Puba
User avatar

Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm
Posts: 5962
Location: Los Angeles
So your real question is how do you meet women that you don't know without having to introduce yourself?

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:28 pm 
Offline
King Among Mortals
User avatar

Joined: Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:36 pm
Posts: 7592
Location: United States
Quote:
Well yes, just think. What normal dude just walks on the street and harasses stranger females like that? I just want to make female friends to hang out with no be casanova whatever.
It's only awkward or harassing if YOU make it that way. It is NORMAL. Well if your from earth.

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:29 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 01, 2016 7:45 pm
Posts: 6
Quote:
So your real question is how do you meet women that you don't know without having to introduce yourself?
Not exactly, I don't mind to introduce myself, I just don't think on the street borderline harassing girls is the best circumstance for that.


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:36 pm 
Offline
The Grand Puba
User avatar

Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm
Posts: 5962
Location: Los Angeles
Quote:
Quote:
So your real question is how do you meet women that you don't know without having to introduce yourself?
Not exactly, I don't mind to introduce myself, I just don't think on the street borderline harassing girls is the best circumstance for that.
I don't think any of the responses meant that you had to do it on the street. You could do it at a party, local events, or anywhere there are people. What you are worried about when you think that you are harassing people is called the spotlight effect. It often happens when you're actions don't match your real motives, such as just wanting to make female friends when you really want more than that.

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:41 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 01, 2016 7:45 pm
Posts: 6
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
So your real question is how do you meet women that you don't know without having to introduce yourself?
Not exactly, I don't mind to introduce myself, I just don't think on the street borderline harassing girls is the best circumstance for that.
I don't think any of the responses meant that you had to do it on the street. You could do it at a party, local events, or anywhere there are people. What you are worried about when you think that you are harassing people is called the spotlight effect. It often happens when you're actions don't match your real motives, such as just wanting to make female friends when you really want more than that.
no dude, believe me I just want to make female friends, I am in a real bad social situation due to bad circumstances

for me sex, even just the idea of kissing a girl is so far fetched I wrote it off just because how impossible it is at this point, I just want to get some girls to have a platonic conversation with


and it's not spotlight effect, I just legitimately dont want to harass girls, I have never in my life seen anyone do a thing like that, everyone meets girls from friends (of friends) and at social events from social circle


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:48 pm 
Offline
King Among Mortals
User avatar

Joined: Tue Oct 18, 2011 8:36 pm
Posts: 7592
Location: United States
Quote:
I am in a real bad social situation due to bad circumstances
Please elaborate for a better understanding.

_________________
They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 9:51 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Feb 01, 2016 7:45 pm
Posts: 6
Quote:
Quote:
I am in a real bad social situation due to bad circumstances
Please elaborate for a better understanding.
I went to boys high school and never made a huge social circle of mixed gender because there were no girls around me, as normal people went to normal mix gender high schools and from there met girls and expanded their social circles and female interaction.

As a result I basically have ZERO social contact with girls.

College isn't good to meet girls tbh, I'm in eastern europe and college here is like the community college in USA, I don't even know the names of the girls from my class and only spoke to girls TWO TIMES in a whole fucking semester of college (but do have male friends)


Top
   
PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2016 10:17 pm 
Offline
The Grand Puba
User avatar

Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm
Posts: 5962
Location: Los Angeles
Quote:
I went to boys high school and never made a huge social circle of mixed gender because there were no girls around me, as normal people went to normal mix gender high schools and from there met girls and expanded their social circles and female interaction.

As a result I basically have ZERO social contact with girls.

College isn't good to meet girls tbh, I'm in eastern europe and college here is like the community college in USA, I don't even know the names of the girls from my class and only spoke to girls TWO TIMES in a whole fucking semester of college (but do have male friends)
You're full of excuses. You don't know any of the girls in your classes and it's your own fault. Go introduce yourself...you have common ground.

_________________
mpuaforum.proboards.com


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:53 am 
Offline
High Priest of Debauchery
User avatar

Joined: Mon Mar 05, 2012 2:48 pm
Posts: 3271
Location: Paradise Found
Scout your area for schools or universities where hot girls study. Next, look at the canteens, diners and restaurants where lots of hot girls hangout. Once you have found the ideal restaurants or diners, eat your lunch or breakfast there on the regular.

If at first you're shy to say, "Hi," then work out, dress well and keep smiling to the minimum. After a week or two of dining out at those canteens or diners, some girls will say, "Hi." You should mirror the greeting back.

Say, "Hi. Good morning./Good afternoon. How was your day?"

When a girl answers, you say, "Cool. By the way, I am IneedJB. Let me guess. Your name is Vivien/Sarah/Cristine/Viveka. You look like you're a Vivien/Sarah/Cristine/Viveka." Shake her hand. Do this with the other girls who open you until you get comfortable holding several different girls' hands. Change the name for each different girl. One girl, you call her Vivien, the next different girl you call her Sarah, the next, Cristine, then Viveka, and so on.

When you get confident with those, you say, "Hi." to other girls you find attractive at the diners who are NOT opening you.

Do it one step at a time until you're comfortable in each different situation. By the way, you can't be choosy on what type of girls who will open you. Some of those will be downright ugly or fat. For practice, just railroad ahead and mirror those greetings back and shake their hands. Some of those uglies and fatties will have hot friends. If you're cool, they'll introduce you to their hot friends.

_________________
Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2016 5:54 am 
Offline
Ask a mod for a custom title

Joined: Tue Mar 26, 2013 6:34 pm
Posts: 3993
"Hi, your nails look dazzling and I simply had to come over and say something!" * gay lisp


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 16 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link