I'll just cut through the B.S. and be straight about things. I am a man, but have a preference for - for lack of a better term - bottoming with women. But that comes the problem, most the women you run into will want to be the ones that get taken, as can be seen by some other forums, questionnaires, etc. I decided to register here, because, frankly, it's well enough known and I want to see how any guys here handle this question.

I'm not an idiot, not looking for a girl who is abusive, just that knows how to be a dominant even if it's just for a short fling. Most advice I did see is for those guys that want that dominant role, so wondering if there's some folks who can just give the advice for those who aren't afraid to do some pursuing, but also wants to be the one pinned if things go quick. I expect the pick-up tactics could generally be the same, but is there anything specific that can help tell the actual dom-girls apart from those that just act confident in crowds but ends up melting when you're alone? Or even specific techniques to attract such women, that may be different from the norm?

It's okay to have a submissive side and have the girl be the dominant one every so often but you're going to have to be the one with the bigger dick most of the time. Sorry, but you're going to have to man up.

dude.. just go to the city. Girls are way on top these days. IME just focus on attraction and allowing the women to get away with shit... most dom women Ive interacted with like mental submission. Iow, there's no real need for gaming doms beyond attraction and submission

I dont like dominant women (subs ftw) howeer they will approach you. Check out fetlife