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So your real question is how do you meet women that you don't know without having to introduce yourself?
Not exactly, I don't mind to introduce myself, I just don't think on the street borderline harassing girls is the best circumstance for that.
I don't think any of the responses meant that you had to do it on the street. You could do it at a party, local events, or anywhere there are people. What you are worried about when you think that you are harassing people is called the spotlight effect. It often happens when you're actions don't match your real motives, such as just wanting to make female friends when you really want more than that.
no dude, believe me I just want to make female friends, I am in a real bad social situation due to bad circumstances
for me sex, even just the idea of kissing a girl is so far fetched I wrote it off just because how impossible it is at this point, I just want to get some girls to have a platonic conversation with
and it's not spotlight effect, I just legitimately dont want to harass girls, I have never in my life seen anyone do a thing like that, everyone meets girls from friends (of friends) and at social events from social circle