Hi. Quick opinion needed, it has happened to me before, it does even now to me occasionally but not that often. The "problem": Girl you're seeing sometimes acts rude/makes jokes about you in front of the friends you hang out with.

Today on college this guy was sitting with his gf, on his left side was her bag, she said him to pass it to her, which he didn't hear at first, then she "yelled" at him like give me the damn bag already.

EDIT: He passed it to her, after which she was like "are you deaf sometimes".

I would be fucking pissed, and was amazed how OK was he with that attitude.

Typically I try never to get offended and just turn it around her, which works, some of my friends tell her right there on the spot "That's the last time you said that." or "What are you talking about" dead serious, some just stay quite and soak all the laughter from others.

What do you do?

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Obvious public shit test wrapped up in a power play to see if he is wrapped around her little finger. = Fail.

Correct response; "Are your arms painted on?"

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The guy is a bitch... That's the difference between you and him. You won' tolerate that.

Girls won't act like that towards you if you don't tolerate it. And if they do, they disappear pretty damn quick.

Yes, girls tend to behave in a different manner as soon as you put your foot down, tell her the rules or she can fuck off. In my experience, every girl does it once, it's like wired in their brain to play that power game as Heywood said, I learned they want a man who's stronger than them. This just proves it.

And I was a bitch too Majikal, this forum influenced me on a lot of things not just my "skill" with women. Never gonna stop appreciating ppl from this forum here helping around.

Thanks for responses.

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It's funny when I read stuff like this because it's so weird to me. I've argued with chick's and gfs... But have NEVER had a girl be rude to me. I'm straining my brain to even come up with a time when it may have been close to a girl being rude. I dunno... Maybe expecting her to be rude at some point may influence her to be? I dunno.... Just so strange.

Back when I was younger, this was the kind of shit that happened to me. So depressing to think guys are going through that shit. You justify it in your own head like "She's having a hard time at the moment" like a woman would justify her boyfriend beating her. Pathetic, really.

The strongest negotiating position is to be able to walk away and mean it, and if a guy is putting up with this shit then obviously he can't walk away. If a woman knows you can't walk away, she knows you're her bitch, so how can she respect you? A woman will never love a man that she can't respect.

Guys are scared to put their foot down incase they lose the woman, and they lie to themselves that it'd be a bad thing to lose her. If his friends pointed it out, he'd probably defend her "She's not always like that. She's just having a shit time. Her rabbit died last year"

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

It comes from a place of scarcity or abundance. A scarcity-mentalitied man like I used to be would put up with shit like this because "who knows if another woman like this will come around." As though she's the only girl on the planet. It is such an absurd and weak mind state.

Precisely. "Another woman like this" is also usually something that average guys say about shit women. They just don't understand. They're seeing what they want to see.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

I wouldn't even be in that situation. Women know who they can get away with that shit with and who they can't.

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