Hey, just a quick question and advice, thanks.

I opened on two particular girls on a night out over the weekend both 9s cute and innocent type - started by approaching the target's friend, joking around having fun mainly with her but also the target… slowly moved onto the target having fun with her before my so called wing wanted to leave / cockblock, so I ended up leaving them and moving onto another venue to meet others (indirectly said they could join but were out on a christmas party so could not leave other girlfriends) I said we will catch up later when I am back, wing left and went home so I was back in later with friends I know less well.

Went back later doing my own thing with other friend mingling around the venue, on leaving these girls were waiting at the entrance with their other friends on their christmas party - at this point had not spoken to the others as they were busy at the bar when I approached (friend 3 did stare at me after as if she knew me), I said bye and nice to meet you etc to the girls... then friend 3 says she went to college with me and mentioned a close mutual friend of mine she was also close to at college, we leave the venue and friend 3 and I chat for a few minutes… I did not remember friend 3 until after I had left and said bye, then remembered who she was at college - we never hung out but we were college acquaintances and in classes together etc I failed to recognise as she has lost loads of weight and looks different.

I messaged friend 3 and apologised for not remembering etc she was cool and responded friendly and jokey…

Now what? I feel I salvaged something despite my supposed wingman letting down at a good moment.

Target is friends with friend 3, who I went to college with, I opened on friend 2, what is the best approach from here?

Potential options

A - wait until I see them out again and don't respond to friend 3's message to me - she asked no questions and her message is a one I could respond to or not… either way it would not matter.

B - like friend 3's picture with the target and friend 2 from the same night on Facebook, which was uploaded today… they are all tagged so maybe target and friend 2 will see and then add me - from there I can chat… or at least build a better connection.

C - respond to friend 3, small talk, say we should all go out (could be borderline odd to suggest this as we never hung out outside college plus she may think I fancy her all of a sudden) to then get in with the target...

D - Straight up add the target and chat - again might be unexpected and ruin the opportunity as at this stage I have given nothing away as to who I prefer… but I feel target and friend 2 were both keen.

Be great to hear your thoughts. Is there any better suggestions or other options?

Thanks - Equanimity

I must be a glutton for punishment I read the whole thing non offense intended OP just busting balls.

Should have taken her # or tried to pull on that night. I would wait until you see them again. I'm old skool like that, not much into the social media bull shit.

Proceed with whatever you think is the best option.

The solution to nearly every post on this forum is to meet more women, so do that too.

Soo true

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How to contact "the target" ? lmao she's a human being dude not an object.

Contact her the same way you would contact every other human being in the world.

"Hello?"

Girls are simple. Guys get fucked up in the head and think they got to do something special. NO, the only thing you have to do is like yourself enough to be confident in all areas.

Go do that.

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