1-3 approaches a day vs 40 on weekends



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 17, 2015 6:33 am 
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I heard it's good to approach everyday so I started doing it. But I realized that I waste about an hour every day getting the courage to approach. and once one is out the way, the flood gates are open. So would it be a better idea to game less days but cram more approaches in when I do? In other words, what is better, to approach more girls on weekends or have a daily routine of approaching which sums up to less approaches at the end of the week?


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 17, 2015 11:55 am 
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I study from home in a small town So I can only approach when I actually plan to game and go to the city


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Approaching 1 woman an hour for 3 hours is the equivalent of trying to heat up your food in the microwave for 20 second intervals every 10 mins for an hour expecting it to get hot.

You'll never get warmed up that way. Its a complete waste of time and unless you strike gold and have a great interaction you'll keep wondering whats taking so long for your game to improve. You have to get out there rapid approach if you want to warm up to the degree that everything will just be flowing naturally.

Once you're more developed in your game, you can begin to limit the number of approaches that you do, but while you're at the stage in which its taking you an hour to do an approach its almost a waste. You'll grow, but the rate of growth won't be noticeable enough, and you'll likely want to give up after the first month.

Do 10 approaches in the hour, get hot. And once you're hot, you'll pretty much go on auto pilot. You won't be able to recall the amount of approaches you've done.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 17, 2015 12:25 pm 
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In addition to eddie's advice...

The 1st approach is the crucial. Just get it out of the way which which will then open the flood gates of momentum.

Wandering around to get into state doesn't sound efficient,

Do yourself a favour and the 1st hot girl you see, no hesitation get straight in the there

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I wouldn't cold approach unless I knew I will be doing more than 5 approaches.(with the exception of random approaches I do when I see opportunity on the day to day, specially if I feel the urge and it makes sense to go for it)

Any less than 5 will make me reek neediness.

I keep an abundant mindset.

I aim for 5+ quality approaches a session.

If I get 5 quality interactions I'm happy and most likely will succeed in a consistant basis.

I'd aim for 100 girls a month.

No fucking way you won't grow from that.

That's daygame.

In Nightgame I approach till I get what I want.

Sometimes I pull on my first approach.... othertimes you don't win. I don't really count my approaches at night, because i'm simply having too much fun and it doesn't matter. What matters is your growing a pair and making shit happen.

This only applies to someone who is serious about gains.

Take action or stay home masterbating , theorizing about approaching. lawlz.

Proof is in the pudding.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 20, 2015 3:52 pm 
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I study from home in a small town So I can only approach when I actually plan to game and go to the city

This is weird, needy, unattractive behavior.

You need to build a life where you're going to meet women regularly. Not "go sarging"


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 21, 2015 8:06 pm 
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Thanks for all the replies. there is a lot of good advice for me to consider here


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I study from home in a small town So I can only approach when I actually plan to game and go to the city

This is weird, needy, unattractive behavior.

You need to build a life where you're going to meet women regularly. Not "go sarging"
This is kinda true, but I hope OP doesn't take it as "Oh so I can stop? Cool. I'll just wait until I work in a bar or something" - going out for the sole purpose of approaching women, is a lot better than sitting at home doing nothing.

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