Don't be a chicken shit. This is the dilemma noobs. Chances are she didn't go out you thinking there was going to be a real relationship, she was attracted.
Okay Bro, so this is kind of a semi rant, but seriously, if you guys out there would follow these seemingly obvious pieces of advice, you'd help yourself a lot. It amazes me to no to end how moronic guys are when trying to score with women. I'm putting these tips out there for the greater good...so we don't have to put up with you, and you have a better chance. Good luck...
First off, realize that when they 1st meet you, you fall into one of two categories. 1) She'll NEVER have sex, or 2) MAYBE we'll have sex.
And isn't that the obvious goal?
Realize, maybe is not YES. At any point if you screw up with one of the following, you get thrown right from maybe to NO. The only time you are safely in the "yes" bag is well...basically when you are already doing it.
She is not going to just jump through the phone and fuck you, you actually have to put in some effort.
It's old as shit but Google vin dicarlo escalation ladder pdf, READ IT!
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